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Why do women always fall for the bad boy?

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Reply 80
Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes
Red pill for women? No way! I shall look it up immediately.

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/
Do not go there.
Original post by CrimsonRainDrops
The fact you say nice guys only get women when they are over 30 and over 30 year old women go for them because they're too weak and unconfident to cheat on them?

Before you start calling me a 30 year old, I'm 18.

Btw, I'm not arguing. I'm curious and want to know a little more.


Sorry buddy my phone went full retard for the last 2 hours

JosB has given you an intro. Lettuce be real tea, TRP is a misogynist circle jerk. It is a cult. If you don't read with a pinch of salt you may end up being unable to interact with women let alone date them. And most importantly it has some very disturbed, dark, dangerous individuals who are DarkTriad. Preliminary reading for your safety: I'm not meaning to patronise you, I'm 22 and was brainwashed last year.

http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2014/09/the-red-pill/

http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2013/03/toxic-alpha-male/

http://i.reddit.com/r/everymanshouldknow/comments/29hbtj/emsk_why_the_red_pill_will_kill_you_inside/

http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=2867515-> yours truly reporting back from 3 months undercover :awesome:

http://jebkinnison.com/2014/05/07/life-is-unfair-the-militant-red-pill-movement/

http://illimitablemen.com/2013/11/17/understanding-the-dark-triad/->active Dark Triad on TRP BeWARe


That being said the tenets of some of its theories are largely correct.

Will quote you into next part. Ask if you want those PMed!
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Oh now come on, how can I not go there when it's 2:30am and I am procrastinating with life and have a blue link in my face :rolleyes: :tongue:
Reply 83
Because they're bored with their lives.


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What in the world am I reading???? :angry:
Original post by Smash Bandicoot
I'm on tour here until Friday. Then I'm flying out to Dubai to preach :tongue:


That's wonderful :awesome:
Reply 86
Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes
What in the world am I reading???? :angry:

'told you.
Original post by Josb
'told you.


"My husband actually did give me a dress code"

"He just had an idea of how his wife should look, and I was more than happy to oblige."

"You need to make him feel like a man then, and need to start acting like a woman."

"Men should be taking the lead, making decisions for the both of you, being sexually aggressive"



No these people aren't real, they can't be! :mad:
Original post by Smash Bandicoot
Sorry buddy my phone went full retard for the last 2 hours

JosB has given you an intro. Lettuce be real tea, TRP is a misogynist circle jerk. It is a cult. If you don't read with a pinch of salt you may end up being unable to interact with women let alone date them. And most importantly it has some very disturbed, dark, dangerous individuals who are DarkTriad. Preliminary reading for your safety: I'm not meaning to patronise you, I'm 22 and was brainwashed last year.

http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2014/09/the-red-pill/

http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2013/03/toxic-alpha-male/

http://i.reddit.com/r/everymanshouldknow/comments/29hbtj/emsk_why_the_red_pill_will_kill_you_inside/

http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=2867515-> yours truly reporting back from 3 months undercover :awesome:

http://jebkinnison.com/2014/05/07/life-is-unfair-the-militant-red-pill-movement/

http://illimitablemen.com/2013/11/17/understanding-the-dark-triad/->active Dark Triad on TRP BeWARe


That being said the tenets of some of its theories are largely correct.

Will quote you into next part. Ask if you want those PMed!


Nah just quote.
Original post by Josb
'told you.


I honestly don't think this is real, not even for a moment. I think it is just a way to lure the "red pill men" into actually believing this exists. It's not real, it just can't be.
Original post by CrimsonRainDrops
The fact you say nice guys only get women when they are over 30 and over 30 year old women go for them because they're too weak and unconfident to cheat on them?

Before you start calling me a 30 year old, I'm 18.

Btw, I'm not arguing. I'm curious and want to know a little more.


To simplify

-Nice guys finish last because being nice alone is unattractive, it contributes **** all to society and is boring because its so abundant as per code for civilisation http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/


-Hot guys can be nice, but don't have to be. This sucks right now, but in years to come you will see it as a blessing.

-when you are young you need to be nice AND good looking, or talented, very smart, very funny etc. To stand out as attractive. People at your/our age are generally very shallow. And self centred. People on this site for instance will pretend to be mature and all that but most of them are insecure 17 year olds who think with their dick/clit and basically the blind are leading the blind. Even the older members are not so mature they're above this.

-whatever society says, most girls are shallow like guys at this age. some moreso. It's all about the tingles. Remember what I said re: dopamine/adrenaline etc. Note also oxytocin: bonding hormone. The sexual marketplace has changed thanks to feminism, being a 20something guy with a decent job is no longer marriage material, you have to look the part. Objectification of men is being encouraged, hence rise of aesthetics culture/bodybuilding boom (see my boycotted thread lol :colonhash:)

there are ways of getting around this which I discuss on Mequa's recent thread. Date the fat/ugly/really short/manly looking girl. But of course very few guys ate prepared to do this, typically going for a vapid bimbo or attractive but narcissistic hot girl who manipulates men with her beauty and the promise of sex (=validation) then crying about it. Understand the game is more emotionally taxing the hotter the woman you're after.

-Women are less shallow about looks as they get older and approach the Wall, but more picky about career, independence etc.. For the reasons I have already discussed.


age

-----------''------>Importance of looks and acting 'alpha'/dominant

<-'-''''----------'''---Importance of money, status and stability

-basically yes, in the same way that you are settling for a girl who's not Natalie Portman/Nina Dobrev/Beyonce etc. but has an awesome personality, loves you and is pretty cute.

-Its interesting that you see not cheating as a sign of weakness. Having options is always good but I think commitment is a great strength lacking in nost youngsters including myself, and many adults. I am a major commitment phobe.

-Low testosterone does lower confidence (I can see with my dad) but the drawback of high test is anger, aggression, reckless/short sighted/impulsive behaviour etc. This is why young men are so trigger happy and eager to do stupid things to themselves :tongue: as mentioned being...calm (not a pushover but notdeliberately being a tease like you were in your youth) and stable both emotionally and financially are far more important to older women

-by old age loneliness and fear of mortality sinks in so old people lose their ego and vanity and are happy to date anyone regardless of status, looks etc. provided they are a good person. If you can wait this long then you're a better man than I am.
Reply 91
Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes
I honestly don't think this is real, not even for a moment. I think it is just a way to lure the "red pill men" into actually believing this exists. It's not real, it just can't be.

You can apply this statement to a lot of subreddits. You lose faith in humanity if you spend too much time on this website.
Reply 92
Masochists like to get hurt.
Reply 93
Original post by Smash Bandicoot
To simplify

-Nice guys finish last because being nice alone is unattractive, it contributes **** all to society and is boring because its so abundant as per code for civilisation http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/


-Hot guys can be nice, but don't have to be. This sucks right now, but in years to come you will see it as a blessing.

-when you are young you need to be nice AND good looking, or talented, very smart, very funny etc. To stand out as attractive. People at your/our age are generally very shallow. And self centred. People on this site for instance will pretend to be mature and all that but most of them are insecure 17 year olds who think with their dick/clit and basically the blind are leading the blind. Even the older members are not so mature they're above this.

-whatever society says, most girls are shallow like guys at this age. some moreso. It's all about the tingles. Remember what I said re: dopamine/adrenaline etc. Note also oxytocin: bonding hormone. The sexual marketplace has changed thanks to feminism, being a 20something guy with a decent job is no longer marriage material, you have to look the part. Objectification of men is being encouraged, hence rise of aesthetics culture/bodybuilding boom (see my boycotted thread lol :colonhash:)

there are ways of getting around this which I discuss on Mequa's recent thread. Date the fat/ugly/really short/manly looking girl. But of course very few guys ate prepared to do this, typically going for a vapid bimbo or attractive but narcissistic hot girl who manipulates men with her beauty and the promise of sex (=validation) then crying about it. Understand the game is more emotionally taxing the hotter the woman you're after.

-Women are less shallow about looks as they get older and approach the Wall, but more picky about career, independence etc.. For the reasons I have already discussed.


age

-----------''------>Importance of looks and acting 'alpha'/dominant

<-'-''''----------'''---Importance of money, status and stability

-basically yes, in the same way that you are settling for a girl who's not Natalie Portman/Nina Dobrev/Beyonce etc. but has an awesome personality, loves you and is pretty cute.

-Its interesting that you see not cheating as a sign of weakness. Having options is always good but I think commitment is a great strength lacking in nost youngsters including myself, and many adults. I am a major commitment phobe.

-Low testosterone does lower confidence (I can see with my dad) but the drawback of high test is anger, aggression, reckless/short sighted/impulsive behaviour etc. This is why young men are so trigger happy and eager to do stupid things to themselves :tongue: as mentioned being...calm (not a pushover but notdeliberately being a tease like you were in your youth) and stable both emotionally and financially are far more important to older women

-by old age loneliness and fear of mortality sinks in so old people lose their ego and vanity and are happy to date anyone regardless of status, looks etc. provided they are a good person. If you can wait this long then you're a better man than I am.

Wow pretty good analysis.. And may I ask what have you studied?
Original post by Josb
You can apply this statement to a lot of subreddits. You lose faith in humanity if you spend too much time on this website.


I am turning it off now. It's BS, I don't believe it for a second, I mean some women may believe in traditional values but they certainly wouldn't be that extreme, at least not out of choice or in this generation.
Original post by theo1jinx
Wow pretty good analysis.. And may I ask what have you studied?


Daww I'm flattered :biggrin:

I'm a graduate with a BA in English Lit and History. I'm an amateur psychologist atm thanks to my relationship OCD :smile:

I Suggest the application of the following books bro, think of them as sophisticated pickup (although we might be a bit young for them to work)

http://www.drglover.com/no-more-mr-nice-guy/the-book.html

http://markmanson.net/books/models
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Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes
I am turning it off now. It's BS, I don't believe it for a second, I mean some women may believe in traditional values but they certainly wouldn't be that extreme, at least not out of choice or in this generation.


And you thought Redpill was a joke :redface:

RPW is probably a sockpuppet sub like I said


They look friendly as anything.
Original post by capachino
The "nice" guy is usually coming off as people pleasing to the girl "oh let me open this door for you ohh im such a nice guy" seems a bit wet and desperate ,if you act like that your placing the girl above you "bowing down in a way" subconciousy she sees it as you saying shes better than you and you have to try for her attention.
this works with both genders in any situations ,think of the helpful person at work offering to get people their coffee (are they the people everyone wants to be friends with? the guy people think are worth the promotion? ) no its the confident guy who who doesnt try to please anyone ,he does what he does and if he acts like a dick he doesnt care ,why? cos he doesnt need anyones approval they want his approval.
girls see these guys and think he must be ,interesting ,more fun ,worth more,whatever -psychologically everyone does it

dont put yourself beneath anyone even if you think a girls really beautiful , if you try to gain her approval she wont care about gaining yours cos she already has it , and you act like your not as good as her ,why would she down date?
she will see a guy across the room, who has enough confidence in himself (even if hes a bad guy) and think hes more worth , that he has more to offer .as he acts like he has more to offer and he doesnt need to prove it to anyone.
basically you place yourself beneath people they will too ,whatever the situation ,whatever the gender.

,and just so you know the guy doesnt have to be a "bad guy" girls go for him ,nice guys that act confident and without needing anyone elses approval like this get girls too,
what they dont like is guys who think they should have a girl just cos they have been people pleasing to her and act bitter towards the guys that dont ,calling them jerks.

think of it like this -
a sales pitch

bad boy is a can of coke - bright and shiny- im cool ,i dont need to sell myself , i know im awesome so does everyone else ,its cos I AM awesome, BUT he rots your teeth
guy who calls himself a nice guy is an unbranded diet coke - your so awesome ,i really really want you to buy me please , i wont rot your teeth , im so good for you! that coke is a jerk! hes a jerk!

which would you buy?


(a confident nice guy is like a diet coke ,knows hes awesome and doesn't rot your teeth,but these guys never go round calling themselves nice guys ,they are just pleasant to people)


yes this is to do with neediness and projection of value. See No More Mr Nice Guy
http://www.drglover.com

loool that diet coke analogy
Original post by Smash Bandicoot
And you thought Redpill was a joke :redface:

RPW is probably a sockpuppet sub like I said


I think it's ridiculous! may I ask you Smash, are you familiar with RSDTyler on youtube?

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