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Am I ugly ??

Hi there am a 21 male who has really bad paranoia about my looks have had it since I was about 16 and it hasn't really gone away since that age. I get paranoid when am out and hear a car beep cause am convinced it's aimed at me for some reason. People have said am good looking but it just goes in one ear and out the other then I am paranoid again it's really bad. Am convinced people are judging me when am out and that. This is probably all in my head but it's just so hard. I will add some pictures can people give me there honest opinion thanks Jordon :smile:.
http://i.imgur.com/w4NyemJ.jpghttp://i.imgur.com/jAjfpz9.pnghttp://i.imgur.com/O7U8uu3.jpg

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Original post by Jordyboi1224
Hi there am a 21 male who has really bad paranoia about my looks have had it since I was about 16 and it hasn't really gone away since that age. I get paranoid when am out and hear a car beep cause am convinced it's aimed at me for some reason. People have said am good looking but it just goes in one ear and out the other then I am paranoid again it's really bad. Am convinced people are judging me when am out and that. This is probably all in my head but it's just so hard. I will add some pictures can people give me there honest opinion thanks Jordon :smile:.
http://i.imgur.com/w4NyemJ.jpghttp://i.imgur.com/jAjfpz9.pnghttp://i.imgur.com/O7U8uu3.jpg

You look like a Beta.

I mean your ear could be pinned back a little and you could have more of a chin than you do now.

But you're not particularly ugly no.
No you're not ugly.
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You look like a regular person. I know the feeling of being overly self conscious about looks but I mostly grew out of it about a year ago.
Your not ugly, you just look very uncomfortable in your photos.
Also, you sound like your just being paranoid and dont take the opinions of some tsr users to heart some are just pathetic.
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Original post by Jordyboi1224
Hi there am a 21 male who has really bad paranoia about my looks have had it since I was about 16 and it hasn't really gone away since that age. I get paranoid when am out and hear a car beep cause am convinced it's aimed at me for some reason. People have said am good looking but it just goes in one ear and out the other then I am paranoid again it's really bad. Am convinced people are judging me when am out and that. This is probably all in my head but it's just so hard. I will add some pictures can people give me there honest opinion thanks Jordon :smile:.
http://i.imgur.com/w4NyemJ.jpghttp://i.imgur.com/jAjfpz9.pnghttp://i.imgur.com/O7U8uu3.jpg

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... Should people commonly thought of as ugly feel ashamed or something?
I would not call that(the picture you have posted) ugly.
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k3ro
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no you're not
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ni909
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No!


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Original post by Jordyboi1224
Hi there am a 21 male who has really bad paranoia about my looks have had it since I was about 16 and it hasn't really gone away since that age. I get paranoid when am out and hear a car beep cause am convinced it's aimed at me for some reason. People have said am good looking but it just goes in one ear and out the other then I am paranoid again it's really bad. Am convinced people are judging me when am out and that. This is probably all in my head but it's just so hard. I will add some pictures can people give me there honest opinion thanks Jordon :smile:.
http://i.imgur.com/w4NyemJ.jpghttp://i.imgur.com/jAjfpz9.pnghttp://i.imgur.com/O7U8uu3.jpg


Meh, you look ok.



Original post by thisistheend
You look like a Beta.

I mean your ear could be pinned back a little and you could have more of a chin than you do now.

But you're not particularly ugly no.


For god sake, can you stop with the whole beta/ alpha. Someone who always has the need to call himself "alpha" doesn't sound alpha at all.
Original post by pignut
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... Should people commonly thought of as ugly feel ashamed or something?

yes they should and they should hide in a dark corner of their room and cry.

i mean are you serious? we are the #selfie / Tinder generation.

ugly = left-swiped 4 ever.

true self-esteem comes from the validation of others.

a homo sapiens in a rainforest that has never met another human know not of the concept of self-esteem. it is a social construct that necessarily relies on the reception of others.
Original post by CrimsonRainDrops
For god sake, can you stop with the whole beta/ alpha. Someone who always has the need to call himself "alpha" doesn't sound alpha at all.

I never said I was Alpha. I just said he looked Beta.

That is logically consistent, no?
No
Aww, bless you! You're not ugly at all, you have a charming smile! :cute: Have more confidence in yourself and believe it when people say you're good looking because you are! :yes:
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Original post by thisistheend
yes they should and they should hide in a dark corner of their room and cry.

i mean are you serious? we are the #selfie / Tinder generation.

ugly = left-swiped 4 ever.

true self-esteem comes from the validation of others.

a homo sapiens in a rainforest that has never met another human know not of the concept of self-esteem. it is a social construct that necessarily relies on the reception of others.


Thanks for letting me read *******s and that obvious statement at the end. Have a nice day pal
Original post by thisistheend
I never said I was Alpha. I just said he looked Beta.

That is logically consistent, no?


urgh. people still do this stupid alpha/beta thing? what are you, 5?
You're crazy paranoid
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Original post by Jordyboi1224

Do not put you collar button. It's terribly beta.
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Original post by thisistheend
You look like a Beta.


No such thing

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You look like Per Mertesacker

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