Can I get a female opinion on how I look?

I googled the clip in mean girls but I still have no idea what that has to do with my comment, your comment or the thread...

I sometimes get a little self conscious and would just like to know how the opposite sex perceives my appearance, I don't care if its 'beta' its just helpful to know, so please share your opinions, thanks

(i dont take many pics for the reason given above, these are just collected from FB and twitter and stuff)

OOO love is in the air ^^^^

I sometimes get a little self conscious and would just like to know how the opposite sex perceives my appearance, I don't care if its 'beta' its just helpful to know, so please share your opinions, thanks

(i dont take many pics for the reason given above, these are just collected from FB and twitter and stuff)

Mate, confidence is what is key.

Who cares what other people think? If they don't like how you look then what's the ****ing point crying about it? It won't change anything. You need to just be yourself, don't worry about how people perceive you, be you. You'll become confident and that will maximise the amount of women that find you attractive.

P.S You look fine. You're not hideous, stop worrying.

You have a lovely smile Like TorpidPhil said, your opinion is the most important! Just be confident in yourself, and love yourself for who you are.

Confidence is not the key. Being good looking is the key.


Bering ":you" only works if a decent size of the dating pool find you attractive. It doesn't work for many who never have much success, if any, with dating.


Forming a successful identity is a give and take process: you can't have it all your own way, the opinions of others do matter. Of course you should never shape yourself completely on the designs of others but you should not ignore external opinions either.

And while it's true he's average-ish he could still improve his appearance significantly with a better diet and style.

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imo you're quite good looking lol
especially in the last pic
the way you present yourself and confidence is key
love yourself

Not being you doesn't work by definition since it isn't you. You can't change your face. Sure you can change your physique/style but that's not what he was asking about tbh - his pictures clearly didn't showcase his physique or style and I'm sure he bloody knows well that if he starts going crazy with his diet/workout he'll look better as well as if he researches fashion...

There is no alternative but to accept what you have, at least facially, as well as the capabilities of your body (you can't cry about being a dwarf). If you do you're always putting yourself at a level of attractiveness under what you otherwise could be because those insecurities manifest themselves in many different way and they are the most unattractive thing ever in a male or a female. Not to mention they make you feel like ****.



@ Frokane Tip for OP, to improve your looks - showcase your fashion a bit more and ask how to improve that. Workout if you don't already, if you do, see if the TSR community finds it an optimal workout.

"Not being you" is another way of advocating a person change themselves. In the same way "being you", or "staying true to yourself" means resisting change that is not self instigated.

Now you're right that facial characteristics are largely from genetics and therefore immutable but there's certain things still under an individual's control, like for instance body fat levels.

OP has lots of buccal fat (cheek fat): this really detracts from the sharpness of his face.

OP would gain immensely if he could lean out his face, of course to do this he would need to lose fat off his entire body.

Smiling makes you less attractive to women. Even I had trouble grasping why but it makes sense with a bit of thought: smiling detracts from a masculine persona.

"Women find men less attractive when they smile compared to when they take on swaggering or brooding poses, a Canadian study has found.
In contrast, men find women more attractive when they smile, and least attractive when they look proud and confident, the study of 1,084 heterosexual men and women shows. "

From: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/between-the-lines/201105/study-finds-smiling-men-are-less-attractive-women

This is not the only study that has found women find smiling men less attractive than brooding men btw. I've seen several others that reached the same conclusion.

Be happy with your appearance. You're good looking.

You look very suave