Hey,
Look she's really not that big, if she is similar size than the OP's photo. I'm a size 18 and 5'8, so I'm on the big size. Guys don't approach me on nights out, it doesn't bother me. Guys tend to approach me more during day light e.g. shopping, at the bus stop etc. There's sooooo many guys out there who like big girls, believe me, I'm leading on about 4 right now. She's probably going about it the wrong way.