Men and women - can you honestly say you don't judge this look?

To answer your question, I would judge. I would see you as more of a potential girlfriend / **** buddy instead of a colleague or professional person. Sorry. Just the way my brain is wired these days.


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It's ok, is there anything that would deter you from thinking like that?

I dress professionally but there is little i can do to hide my frame.

you mean men in your project being uber-attractive like you (and more suited to the catwalk instead of an office?)

I didn't say I'm 'uber attractive'. For example when i started at my current company people made small comments here and there, which I ignored, but I hyeard a few of them discussing the new girl in the kitchen. Men were calling me hot making no comment on my demeanour and the girls were saying I wouldn't last five minutes and it's unprofessional for me to 'parade around' in front of clients - I was wear a high neck shirt, knee length pencil skirt and blazer jacket. Ridiculous. I'm slim with tits, I dress the best I can.

With stuff like this it just means i have to put my foot in people's asses a lot more at work. I'm on the defence.

I was going to say try mixing up the dress sense but you just covered that yourself. Just make sure you have no 'lady parts' on show. I don't know, it's difficult, a young, attractive women is always going to be idealised by men, and unfortunately for you, not in a professional way. Just dress well, don't wear excessive make up and be professional.

Most of all... Enjoy it! Lol. In 10 years time you'll be asking where all the time & attention went as the new, young girl starts work so you may as well embrace it whilst you have it!


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thanks. I do those things already.

I'm not going to enjoy it as if it is a compliment. My mother is still head-turning and glamourous in her late 40s so I imagine I have a long time of this feeling to come. Unless I go back to heroin and **** my body up, like mummy dear always tells me!

No. Why would having big boobs and a slim body make someone a bimbo? I would judge them on how good they were at their job.

"Look at me! look at me! everyone at my job envies me because i'm good looking! look at me!"

Unfortunately most people (including myself) will judge you because humans find beauty an attractive trait -- I probably would also judge you unfairly that based on your looks you had got where you go to through looks rather than hard work, this is not based on the truth of whether you did nor not but because it's a view society drills into us from the young age (men are always worthy of their position, women sleep their way up to the top etc). That being said, I remember at uni seeing on of my friends for the first time being an absolute blonde bombshell and she was also really ditzy (so think most stereotypes here) but she was one of the most intelligent people I know and now 7 years on she is happily married and earning £50k+/year in an accounting job so just ignore these people - you can succeed without them

Well, what else would expect in this day and age OP?
If you're a reasonably attractive female and you decide to wear clothes that flatter your figure, then expect the focus to invariably be on your appearance.

"Look at me! look at me! everyone at my job envies me because i'm good looking! look at me!"