Would you be with a girl who had 2 abortions?

Would you be at all romantically interested in a girl who had 2 abortions when she was young and very naive?

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I don't see why anything along those lines would put someone off. It's not like you have to go in on the first date shouting it from the rooftops either. When someone likes you, they like you, past abortions are not going to have any effect on any relationship going forward, even if the abortions are an indication of a reckless attitude to sex. If you say had some sort of awful disease that would affect the relationship but past abortions no.

Reply 2

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i don't really give a **** about the wrong doings people have done yesterday if they're a changed person today, so i would say yeah i would if they don't make the same mistakes, we all got things we done that we aint proud of

Reply 3

SuckMeBeautiful

Would she be able to have kids despite? That would be an important factor 4sum I imagine

Reply 4

william walker

Never. I am a Protestant.

Reply 5

Soldieroffortune

Couldn't care less really albeit i'd probably not be with her for having the IQ of grass... getting pregnant once fair enough oopsy but twice, theres the pill, condoms, femidoms, morning after pill etc. etc. etc. going bareback twice and not doing anything about it is stupid to say the least.

Reply 6

majatheaztec

Original post by Anonymous

Would you be at all romantically interested in a girl who had 2 abortions when she was young and very naive?

If you are both attracted to each other it shouldn't matter. The abortions could have prevented an unwanted child having a miserable life. If she matured and knows how to use proper contraception I wouldn't worry too much about it.

Reply 7

Inazuma

Why, would you prefer a girl with 2 children? :redface:

Reply 8

Chicken.M.

Original post by SuckMeBeautiful

Would she be able to have kids despite? That would be an important factor 4sum I imagine

Totes

Reply 9

phunky_fresh

When would this come up in conversation? '' so have you had any abortions? " I mean unless you have a deep discussion about abortions and it comes up, I don't see why this topic would surface.

Reply 10

Rakas21

It would reflect poor judgement on her part so probably not.

Reply 11

stargirl63

Original post by Rakas21

It would reflect poor judgement on her part so probably not.

On her and her previous sexual partners' judgement.

Reply 12

Rakas21

Original post by stargirl63

On her and her previous sexual partners' judgement.

True, but i would'nt be considering dating her prior sexual partners so they become somewhat irelevant. :tongue:

Reply 13

stargirl63

Original post by Rakas21

True, but i would'nt be considering dating her prior sexual partners so they become somewhat irelevant. :tongue:

Of course, but my point is not to blame her entirely.

Reply 14

trustmeimlying1

Original post by phunky_fresh

When would this come up in conversation? '' so have you had any abortions? " I mean unless you have a deep discussion about abortions and it comes up, I don't see why this topic would surface.

its one of those topics that is an issue for some so if youre dating a while she probably should say..

yeer a lot more liberal in england but in ireland its a different kettle of fish

Reply 15

Chicken.M.

Original post by phunky_fresh

When would this come up in conversation? '' so have you had any abortions? " I mean unless you have a deep discussion about abortions and it comes up, I don't see why this topic would surface.

I have deep conversations before considering gfing someone. Don't want any nasty surprises or someone with different ethical ideoligies etc.

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Reply 16

Anonymous #1

The reason I asked was recently a guy dumped me because he found out I have had an abortion. Somebody told him (I think it was my ex).

He confronted me and I told him the truth, that it wasn't just once, it was twice and he then dumped me, called me every name under the sun and now I feel like a disgusting human being :frown: