I swear sometimes it seems like girls have so many expectations of men. Most girls I meet at this age (19) are utterly bland, have little to say for themselves and are incredibly generic.
As a man if you like a girl your expected to make a move on her, not come off to keen but also not too distant, be the right mixture of cheeky and polite, carry the conversation at pretty much all times, have jokes memorised if a date gets boring, spend a ****load on things you can't afford so you don't look like a cheapskate etc. It's like were expected to have this persona of a steely bond-esque character up at all times.
Meanwhile all a girl is expected to do is look attractive.
It explains why so many of them have so little character. You get the odd girl who is really funny but its a rarity, most of them won't even acknowledge you unless your really attractive or acknowledge them first.
I was watching Dinner Date the other day and when asked what she wanted her date to be like she said "Tall, hot, has to be able to make me laugh, a nice beard". Damn, I mean we are all allowed to have preferences but **** .. Why can't this bitch make herself laugh ? You hear that phrase thrown around by women all the time. Not only are we meant to spoil women and protect them but we also have to be comedians.
This sounds so bitter but it's true.
Why do you think the whole PUA thing got so big ?