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Should I go to this party?

Basically it's this guys party tonight and we have spoken before yet I havent been invited when he has invited lots of people he has never spoke to (my sister).

My friend is saying I should just go and she will ask him if it's okay and another said he wants as many people as possible there. Although none of my really close friends are going and rather just close acquaintances with their group. I'm scared about getting left alone but still want to go..

So should I go? Ah

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the more the merrier :smile:
Reply 2
Anything that gets you out of the comfort zone.
Sometimes it's good to get out of your comfort zone once in a while. I know it's a bit unnerving to think you might be left alone at times, but it's a good time to socialise with new people and make new friends.. you never know what could happen. If you want to go, then you owe it to yourself to go, even if it's just to gain experience from it :h: But if you don't go, you have to be prepared that you might regret not going, trust me, that's from personal experience
Reply 4
Original post by EmEternal2
Sometimes it's good to get out of your comfort zone once in a while. I know it's a bit unnerving to think you might be left alone at times, but it's a good time to socialise with new people and make new friends.. you never know what could happen. If you want to go, then you owe it to yourself to go, even if it's just to gain experience from it :h: But if you don't go, you have to be prepared that you might regret not going, trust me, that's from personal experience


Thankyou, I just really don't want to be let alone and feel like a liability to them ;/
Original post by Anonymous
Basically it's this guys party tonight and we have spoken before yet I havent been invited when he has invited lots of people he has never spoke to (my sister).

My friend is saying I should just go and she will ask him if it's okay and another said he wants as many people as possible there. Although none of my really close friends are going and rather just close acquaintances with their group. I'm scared about getting left alone but still want to go..

So should I go? Ah


If these ppl r just acquaintances and u think ur just going to be alone don't go & waste ur time cause it might just make u upset being by yourself & feel like a wasted juroney if u weren't invited no ones going to be bothered if u show up or not tbh.
Go! As so many people have said it will get you out of your comfort zone. But it'll make you feel better if you have a back out plan. Perhaps a parent who'll come and pick you up a little early or if it's close by you could make up an excuse to leave and walk home, or even a number for a taxi. That way if you're not enjoying yourself or find yourself alone then you can go home if you want to.
Reply 7
Will it come off embrassing/needy if I get my friend to ask if I can come? Ugh
parties can be pretty boring if you don't know anyone there lol and it's also a crap party.
Reply 9
Original post by ChickenMadness
parties can be pretty boring if you don't know anyone there lol and it's also a crap party.


Omg no that's how you make friends :colondollar:
Original post by Ness'B
Omg no that's how you make friends :colondollar:


ye but you have no one to fall back on and have fun with if the party is crap lol.
Reply 11
Original post by ChickenMadness
ye but you have no one to fall back on and have fun with if the party is crap lol.


Then you go home...
Original post by Ness'B
Then you go home...

Then it's a bit of a waste of time going out...
Original post by Ness'B
Then you go home...


Massive waste of time haha. I don't go out unless theres a guarantee I'll have a good time. Rocking up to some random nerd party and then having to leave to go home after 10 minutes because you couldn't find anything else to do is major hassle. I could be playing skyrim instead.
Reply 14
Original post by Retired_Messiah
Then it's a bit of a waste of time going out...

True, but you never know..
Reply 15
Original post by ChickenMadness
Massive waste of time haha. I don't go out unless theres a guarantee I'll have a good time. Rocking up to some random nerd party and then having to leave to go home after 10 minutes because you couldn't find anything else to do is major hassle. I could be playing skyrim instead.


LOL, okayy ffs it's truee
Original post by Ness'B
True, but you never know..


Hiya I went and I'm glad I did so thankyou for the replies :smile:
Reply 17
Original post by Anonymous
Hiya I went and I'm glad I did so thankyou for the replies :smile:


Yes!!! and she had a good time :tongue:
go go but don't do anything stupid
Original post by Ness'B
Yes!!! and she had a good time :tongue:


ye it was a gamble though lmao.

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