Girls 16 - 21, would you prefer an older guys (30s) to be honest about his age?

I meant it more in the way of older men thinking "oh she is 16, we could hook up if she wants to as well and it would be okay because shes legal"

Morally a 30 something year old should;t be chasing 16 year olds who are bearly out of high school.

Your preferred age may not be 16, but if you go that low and you yourself are in your 30's it's a little strange.

I would never judge someone on who they decide to hook up with, but if I seen one of my friends getting off with a 30 year old man I would pull her to the side and tell her what I thought. I'm not going to say all age gaps are wrong,

I just think at 16 you shouldn't be considering a 30 year old, and a 30 year old shouldn't be considering a 16 year old.

I don't think like that.


That's all subjective.

That's also subjective too.

I think you should mind your own business about who your friends date/hook up with. What if the two people got on well and had a good relationship despite the age gap? Would you still think negatively about it then?

That's your opinion.

I don't think like that.



That's all subjective.



That's also subjective too.



I think you should mind your own business about who your friends date/hook up with. What if the two people got on well and had a good relationship despite the age gap? Would you still think negatively about it then?



That's your opinion.

Everything is subjective. Whether or not a 50 year old man should marry a consenting 16 year old in subjective.
We don't give tedious tasks to 14 year olds because they are not mature. We don't give loans to 16 year olds because they are too young to accurately assess the implications. We for some reason allow 16 year olds to give their body to older men when they are unable to accurately assess the emotional implication. This is not subjective. This is fact.

You sound like a self entitled ****ing prick. I'm literally fuming.

It's less likely to be pleasurable and emotionally satisfying at such a young age because young girls aren't emotionally mature as well as being incredibly vunerable due to their young age.

A lot of young girls who feel the need to engage in such a relationship with a man closer to their father's age than theirs have substantial emotional issues.

You as an adult should know this and refrain from taking advantage.

16-18 year olds have casual sex but often are unable to detach sex and romantic feelings from one another because they lack the emotional maturity to do so.

You can't just have sex with them and be on your way AND expect them not to be hurt. You know this you're not an idiot.

Who are you to disturb and possibly traumatise a young girl for your own selfish needs.

Someone your age is not going to have the same relationship someone the same age as me would have with me.

We are at completely different stages in life and in maturity. It is very unlikely we will be compatible.

How dare you 'hook up' with an emotionally vulnerable child and act like you are doing them a favor.

Leave them in a better condition than when you met them ??? i doubt it. HOW?

They now have a bad experience with an older man

who has literally had sex with them and left them causing their subsequent relationships to be full of issues resulting from newly found trust issues, abandonment issues and all round low self esteem since they feel they weren't enough to make you stay. You are mature enough to know all off this.

You are mistreating them simply by engaging with them in this way,

a girl that'd rather go out with someone closer to her dads age than her own is usually not an emotionally stable girl.

You've never experienced it because you don't want to see it.

You make me sick but i'm literally going to beg you to stop. It's something i think you can tell that i feel very strongly about. Please, please leave these girls alone.

A 30 year old man waiting for his girlfriend at the school gates? Nope. I have been with people in the past that have had an age gap,

Are you saying you never make a comment on your friend relationships?

It would depend on the actual age rather than the gap. A 50 year old and a 60 year old is perfectly okay. A 16 year old and a 26 year old, not so much. Both have them same gap though.

I tend not to concern myself with what other people think about me. I find life is easier when you don't let other people dictate how you live your life. If you spend your life always worrying about what other people think about you, you'll never be happy.

Everything is subjective. Whether or not a 50 year old man should marry a consenting 16 year old in subjective.
We don't give tedious tasks to 14 year olds because they are not mature. We don't give loans to 16 year olds because they are too young to accurately assess the implications. We for some reason allow 16 year olds to give their body to older men when they are unable to accurately assess the emotional implication. This is not subjective. This is fact.

In other words you want to have sex with young girls and you're not interested in the emotional cost to them.

I wouldn't 'wait at the school gates'. If I hook up with a 16 year old, she more likely to be at college than school.

I take the view that my friend's relationships are none of my business. As long as they are happy and their partner treats them right, then it's their business who they date/hook up with.

In who's mind?

Yeah right notice how you're asking for girls bang on the legal age limit. Seriously I don't care how attractive they are to you or even you are to them, engage your brain not your acing penis leave them alone they have their youth to get on with. And as you've said you don't care what people think so you're not going to care when you mess with a young girls head.

Age to consent means they can have sex with out minors who are also 16/17 18 whatever. 16 year olds with ****ing 33 year Olds is ****ing statutory rape idiot.

What do you mean by 'the emotional cost to them'?

You asked me "What if the two people got on well and had a good relationship despite the age gap? Would you still think negatively about it then?" Th last part was in my mind. A lot of 16 year olds are still in school, some year 11's are 16, some carry on at sixth form at their current school. While their actual relationships might be none of your business, you dont know the ins and out, you will still have an opinion on it. Easy to assume your a male and most of your friends are as well, relationships aint a typical "lads" conversation, us girls it can be a high topic for us to comment on friends relationships and talk about our own relationships with our friends, so yes, while it may not be my business to know the ins and out, if my friend came to me and said "I've met someone, hes a little older" and she then told me how old I would say something.

It doesn't concern me if a girl I date/hook up with gossips to her friends about me. I don't concern myself with that. And I don't have 'typical lad's conversation' with my friends. I don't discuss girls I date/hook up with my friends.