Why do people think it's so weird if your still a virgin at uni?

So my first year of uni ends in a week (I'm 19) , it's been a pretty good year made friends getting a house with them and all that stuff. One things still bugging me though, how much of a big deal being a virgin is to some people. They always assume there's some reason for it, like your socially awkward (ok, in some cases I can be around girls :P) or you're a creep. I told a girl in my accommodation that I was a virgin and her response was "awwww, that's so cute".

I guess I've never really tried to lose my virginity (never really spoke to many girls, or had friends that are girls) and I don't care until some comments are made by unexpected people like even my dad was like "bet you've got with a few girls at uni" whilst we were having a pint at the pub over the break and I just sorta laughed :/ .

Alot of people lose it at school I guess because everyones going through puberty and experiment, I didn't really catch on to it all at that age because I didn't get aroused or anything until I was like 15-16 (bit personal, sorry) so I missed out on that gap and have just fell out of that circle now everyones got experience, plus I look pretty young for my age which girls don't find attractive, either way I just think I should have lost if by now because it's the social norm and that's becoming even more obvious now through tv shows and stuff.

Your thoughts guys?

i'll be a virgin when I go It's not like anyone's gonna know though. I'll hardly be announcing it from the rooftops.

Because most people lose it at 16.


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So my first year of uni ends in a week (I'm 19) , it's been a pretty good year made friends getting a house with them and all that stuff. One things still bugging me though, how much of a big deal being a virgin is to some people. They always assume there's some reason for it, like your socially awkward (ok, in some cases I can be around girls :P) or you're a creep. I told a girl in my accommodation that I was a virgin and her response was "awwww, that's so cute".

I guess I've never really tried to lose my virginity (never really spoke to many girls, or had friends that are girls) and I don't care until some comments are made by unexpected people like even my dad was like "bet you've got with a few girls at uni" whilst we were having a pint at the pub over the break and I just sorta laughed :/ .

Alot of people lose it at school I guess because everyones going through puberty and experiment, I didn't really catch on to it all at that age because I didn't get aroused or anything until I was like 15-16 (bit personal, sorry) so I missed out on that gap and have just fell out of that circle now everyones got experience, plus I look pretty young for my age which girls don't find attractive, either way I just think I should have lost if by now because it's the social norm and that's becoming even more obvious now through tv shows and stuff.

Your thoughts guys?

christ...virgin at 19? and youre at uni? living away from home?

whats wrong with you, what are you doing so badly?

you wanna go out at least once a week and bring a girl back. hey, listen, pull a fatty if needs be. get that virgin tag from your name and then you can up your game and move on from there.

get an escort if that fails. do anything to get your confidence higher and lose the virgin tag. i lost mine at 15 dude up your game (srs)

Am your male version, because my friends are use to doing the same thing, but the thing is that i dont care about what they say, that just it. Just dont care about what they say mate.

I'm male too bro

Yeah I know it's pretty bad I'll even accept your opinion at this point, I just don't put myself out there maybe because of confidence issues, I don't go out with mates that are into pulling either, they have girlfriends or we just have lads nights.

christ...virgin at 19? and youre at uni? living away from home?

whats wrong with you, what are you doing so badly?

you wanna go out at least once a week and bring a girl back. hey, listen, pull a fatty if needs be. get that virgin tag from your name and then you can up your game and move on from there.

get an escort if that fails. do anything to get your confidence higher and lose the virgin tag. i lost mine at 15 dude up your game (srs)

No that's stupid he should definitely not get an escort. Do not get an escort

No that's stupid he should definitely not get an escort. Do not get an escort

I guess I've never really tried to lose my virginity (never really spoke to many girls, or had friends that are girls) and I don't care until some comments are made by unexpected people like even my dad was like "bet you've got with a few girls at uni" whilst we were having a pint at the pub over the break and I just sorta laughed :/ .