I love my boyfriend so much - he is my best friend in the whole world and i'd be lost without him. We've been together for only about 5 months and are both 20 year old students.
But part of me can't help but wonder "what if?" and "what else is out there?". I guess your early 20s can be a confusing time, all about finding yourself. Cheesy as that may sound, I think it's pretty true. I still have no idea who I am or what I want out of life. My boyfriend is in a similar position.
I'd say we're both quite open-minded people. We're open and honest about everything together - the relationship is really special and has a lot of trust. I told him a few weeks ago about my concerns about not feeling 100% ready for the serious-ness. He was really cool about it and we talked it over. We concluded to stay together and see what happens, but he also said to me that "if, in a few months time, you change your mind, it's cool. We can remain friends - i'm not going anywhere and will always be here for you". Although he did stress that he loves me and doesn't want us to break up. I'm feeling the same way, though keep over thinking it all.
Trying not to ramble on but I guess i'm just curious to hear other people's stories/advice. Is 20 too young to settle down?