Well, ok i met this girl one night and we talked and swapped numbers and all. then i meet her maybe a week later and this time she comes back to my my flat and we talk but she doesnt sleep in my bed.. then repeat again this time she stays in my bed (no sex but kissing) then another time this happens and theres some sex.. ok well before christmas she would text me a lot with quite long texting conversations and we would talk, now just before christmas i didn't see her for a while with work to do and after christmas she doesn't text me.i see her out quite often and when i see her we talk plus shes friends with friends of mine.
some of my friends (girls) say i should speak to her about how she feels.. but i'm thinking that the lack of texting recently means shes not bothered. whats the general opinion of people here? please help i like her! thanks!
Just find her and talk to her; you will if you like her enough. She's probably dodging you because she doesn't want to talk about it or confront the issue, but you both need to, so make it happen.
hmm well i'll see her tomorow in a drunken state so i'll see how things go. but really i dont think shes interested because of the lack of contact.. but friends say i should do something.. but they could just be saying that. oh well thanks for the advice, keep it coming!