He left me for another girl after 3 years after making hints that I was no longer entertaining, he had become bored etc.
It hurt because we used to have a lot of fun, went out often, and we seemed very similar. I don't really drink, but i'm still happy to go to pubs and bars, like socialising, going to concerts, cinema etc. And I love sports.
I've been told i'm sharp-witted and I suppose the way I am may come across as boring.
The girl he left me for seems to be a massive party animal, out most nights,can drink more beer than a typical lad, always doing 'crazy stuff', falling over in the street etc. Before they were getting closer, he actually told me she was annoying and immature.
Anyway we've managed to remain friendly and i'm shocked at what he tells me. He's gotten into a couple of fights with other guys, he's doing stuff like dancing topless in the middle of a club. He seems to be careless (something he was always mad at me for). He lost a pair of ray ban sunglasses when drunk and has said stuff like they booked a train to Holland and had absolutely no idea how long it'd take, they hadn't even checked.
He managed to impale his leg on a spike when drunk and has a huge scar. It's just stuff like that. It's really not the guy I knew and it hurts to feel that he's having so much fun with her. He didn't even used to drink much when we were dating.
Makes me feel like I was a killjoy even though I was always up for going out etc. Seems to be such a heavy drinker now. His choice of course... But what do people make of this? We're 24 btw