Well yeah, as a muslim girl, I'm not allowed a boyfriend so when I do have one it is totally secret.
My mum found out about my ex by reading my diary. She made me swear to allah/quran I would never communicate with him again, or else she'll tell my dad and **** was going to go down if he found out...
The secrecy can get really annoying because I'd rather be open and talk about whatever with my mum, but I just can't.
Atm, with my current bf, obviously parents are unaware, but it's frustrating being the 'complicated one' in the relationship. Makes you feel like he'll somewhat get frustrated too and feel like 'wtf, I could have another girl who is less complicated' lol.
Getting out and going on dates is a struggle too, but we manage.
With friends ffs, my family don't like me talking to any 'kafirs' non-muslims, which sucks because all my friends are black and either christian or agnostic. So yeah I can't talk to my mum about them smh.
But anyway, whatever happens I do what is right and that is what makes me happy. They always say 'Parents know what is right/best for you', but lettuce be real now... No they don't.
Ciao