When will this end?!

I've been infatuated to this girl I've hardly spoken to for the past 8-9 months. When will it stop?

I think about her every day and the first year of uni has ended so I don't see her until October. I feel like I'm in love with her, my life is incomplete without her and all that rubbish.

(edited 8 years ago)

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Reply 1

channies

If you haven't spoken to her much you're probably thinking she's amazing when in fact if you got to know her more you might find out she's a terrible person

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Reply 2

Vorsah

Original post by channies

If you haven't spoken to her much you're probably thinking she's amazing when in fact if you got to know her more you might find out she's a terrible person
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I can't get to know her more as the next time I'll see her is in October if she passes 1st year of uni.

What do I do till then?

Every time I try not to think about her, her image just comes up in my mind

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Reply 3

Lyserg

Original post by Vorsah

I can't get to know her more as the next time I'll see her is in October if she passes 1st year of uni.
What do I do till then?
Every time I try not to think about her, her image just comes up in my mind

Message her?

Reply 4

Vorsah

Is the only way to end infatuation is to talk I this girl?

Reply 5

inachigeek21

One night stand with another girl. Meh.

Reply 6

Vorsah

Original post by Lyserg

Message her?

I've spoken to her once and that was 3 months ago, when she asked me for help. Why would I have her number?

I've seen her fb profile, but I don't know if I should add her I don't really add people that I don't talk.

Reply 7

Vorsah

Original post by inachigeek21

One night stand with another girl. Meh.

I not that type of guy.

But thanks for the input

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by Vorsah

8-9 months? That is nothing compared to the 7 years I have waited. What is wrong with me?

Reply 9

Lyserg

Original post by Vorsah

I've spoken to her once and that was 3 months ago, when she asked me for help. Why would I have her number?
I've seen her fb profile, but I don't know if I should add her I don't really add people that I don't talk.

I don't get you. You obviously like this girl, add her and be like 'what's up?' - life's too short to let pride get in the way.

Reply 10

Vorsah

Original post by Lyserg

I don't get you. You obviously like this girl, add her and be like 'what's up?' - life's too short to let pride get in the way.

After hardly talking to someone for 9 months, you want me to message them saying 'what's up?'. I would certainly find this weird if someone did that to me, unless they were an old friend.

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Reply 11

Vorsah

Original post by Anonymous

8-9 months? That is nothing compared to the 7 years I have waited. What is wrong with me?

How old are you?

Reply 12

MNem

1. talk to her. don't make excuses, if you're that keen you can message her on social media
2. wait for the infatuation to pass. move on

Reply 13

Captain Josh

Original post by channies

If you haven't spoken to her much you're probably thinking she's amazing when in fact if you got to know her more you might find out she's a terrible person

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I'm a terrible person, I still love myself.

Reply 14

TheWaffle

Original post by Vorsah

What did she ask for help with?
How long did you speak for at that time?

Reply 15

517340

The unreachable fruit effect? Someone seems so great and amazing because you 're not able to get to them, who knows, maybe she's not as great as you imagine her to be [[from putting her on a pedestal, it won't really be her fault in the slightest]].

You've never talked to the girl, you don't really know her and you've got disney princess syndrome.

In the meantime, make some friends you like being around.

Reply 16

Vorsah

Original post by MNem

1. talk to her. don't make excuses, if you're that keen you can message her on social media
2. wait for the infatuation to pass. move on

Read post 11. I swear it's not an excuse.

Reply 17

Vorsah

Original post by TheWaffle

What did she ask for help with?
How long did you speak for at that time?

Some maths stuff, for 10 seconds.

Reply 18

MNem

Original post by Vorsah

Read post 11. I swear it's not an excuse.

why dont you just be half honest with her (leave out anything sounding obsessive)... its a bold move and may work. Alternatively u can go with the 'play it cool' and wait till october. At least if she rejects you you have months to lick your wounds.

Reply 19

Vorsah

I found out that she lives around 35 minutes away from me. We had to fill out forms at uni and we had to write our home and term time address and I ended up collecting the forms for my group.