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Should we allow incestuous couples to marry and adopt?

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Reply 21
Original post by em211997
So you basically don't care about others opinions or the concept that they may be valid you just want to attack people who have different views to you... Ok then lol continue :hand:


I just see things how they really are. There's little point in debating things within the internal logic of ideologies that rest on flawed paradigms, so parody serves as a better debate.
Reply 22
Original post by Crossedit
That's nonsense frankly. Can you give any examples of incest or polyamory being common in Western European Christian society? They were restricted and condemned in exactly the same way homosexuality was, as perversions.

An obvious example would be the common practices of inbreeding across Europe within the aristocracy and Monarchy. Our own Monarchy has had a long tradition of inbreeding, as this was how they historically sought to keep their bloodline 'clean'. Henry 8th decreed cousin-to-cousin marriages as legal, and the current Sexual Offenses Act doesn't forbid this, despite those genetic risks being there. So... this form of incest has not only historically been practiced, despite condemnation, but it's still legal to this very day. It's a form of endogamy, which is very popular across religious societies.

It depends how close to the family unit you want to get when defining incest. Some forms are legal but greatly discouraged, others are clearly illegal and less common, whilst other forms have very rarely been documented at all.

The point, however, is that it isn't the slippery slope that people make it out to be. The practice has clearly become less common as time has evolved, hence why our Monarchs and (remaining) aristocracy aren't dropping en-masse with haemophilia. Their gene pool has widened.

Biblical stories are a poor example compared to the actual laws of these societies. The fact that forms of homosexuality has been common in some cultures in the past is often used as argument in favour of LGBT. The Ancient Greeks loved to **** young boys for example, which is reminiscent of the early LGBTs affiliation with groups such as NAMBLA and other pedophiles.

Biblical stories are always poor examples. However, as documented above, laws historically have been made by monarchs. If the monarchy had a clear self-interest in protecting their bloodline, it's of little surprise this was reflected within their ruling.
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Original post by Crossedit
If they love each other, and are two consenting adults, then why not? The argument against it is that they produce children with genetic deficiencies - but by that logic, surely we should stop people with inheritable diseases from breeding? Even so, even if we outlawed incestuous breeding, why shouldn't they be able to adopt?
We keep being told that there is "no such thing as the traditional family", so why is it so bad for a child to have a father and mother who are also brother and sister? It's no more unnatural then having two fathers or two mothers. The idea that it's "disgusting" is purely an emotional argument, and indeed, bigotry.
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Incest is a moral abomination and anybody found to be engaging in such perversion must be arrested.
Original post by Rakas21
Incest is a moral abomination and anybody found to be engaging in such perversion must be arrested.


That response does nothing to refute what was said to you. Your belief and argument is emotional, and when you start using subjective terms like 'abomination', you know your argument has slipped. What you've said is how people used to, and in some cases still do, describe homosexuality. Times change. Why should we care about how others choose to spend their lives if they're not infringing upon our own or others?

It's a bizarre scenario to picture, but I'm not sure I have any rational reason to object. It's not something I would feel very comfortable about approving, but that's my social conditioning talking - and I'm aware of that. Looking beyond social structures, why couldn't two relatives in a sexual relationship take care of a child successfully just like any other two adults?
Reply 25
Original post by LPK
An obvious example would be the common practices of inbreeding across Europe within the aristocracy and Monarchy. Our own Monarchy has had a long tradition of inbreeding, as this was how they historically sought to keep their bloodline 'clean'. Henry 8th decreed cousin-to-cousin marriages as legal, and the current Sexual Offenses Act doesn't forbid this, despite those genetic risks being there. So... this form of incest has not only historically been practiced, despite condemnation, but it's still legal to this very day. It's a form of endogamy, which is very popular across religious societies.

It depends how close to the family unit you want to get when defining incest. Some forms are legal but greatly discouraged, others are clearly illegal and less common, whilst other forms have very rarely been documented at all.

The point, however, is that it isn't the slippery slope that people make it out to be. The practice has clearly become less common as time has evolved, hence why our Monarchs and (remaining) aristocracy aren't dropping en-masse with haemophilia. Their gene pool has widened.


Biblical stories are always poor examples. However, as documented above, laws historically have been made by monarchs. If the monarchy had a clear self-interest in protecting their bloodline, it's of little surprise this was reflected within their ruling.


Limiting the discussion to cousins marrying each other is shifting the bar pretty far, in real and metaphorical terms. I think most people would agree that brother sister or parent children relationships are much more disgusting.

I don't really see the point in your argument though, it's not very relevant. It's obvious that any argument you can apply to LGBQT, you can apply to incest. You even have liberals here that agree with me because it works with the same internal logic. That's the real "slippery slope".
Reply 26
Original post by Rakas21
Incest is a moral abomination and anybody found to be engaging in such perversion must be arrested.


I agree I was just trying to start a discussion. Evidently it worked.
Reply 27
Original post by Reluire
That response does nothing to refute what was said to you. Your belief and argument is emotional, and when you start using subjective terms like 'abomination', you know your argument has slipped. What you've said is how people used to, and in some cases still do, describe homosexuality. Times change. Why should we care about how others choose to spend their lives if they're not infringing upon our own or others?

It's a bizarre scenario to picture, but I'm not sure I have any rational reason to object. It's not something I would feel very comfortable about approving, but that's my social conditioning talking - and I'm aware of that. Looking beyond social structures, why couldn't two relatives in a sexual relationship take care of a child successfully just like any other two adults?


No it's not. It's your nature. It's your social conditioning that's telling that you can "rationally" work out sexual morality as if it were some kind of logical puzzle.
Well they let homosexuals marry so you know it wont be long before we see this
You can't logically be in favour of gay marriage/LGBT rights but be against incestuous relationships between adults.
Yeah, tbh, I can't see any logical reason for it to be illegal.

The genetic disease argument is very poor, because we don't, for example, ban two carriers of cystic fibrosis from getting married and having children.

Saying, "eww it's weird" obviously isn't a good argument, since people once said the same about homosexuality.
Bleh. Don't really care. S'long as it's all consensual, I guess. It shouldn't really be anything to do with the government who you can and can't marry.
yes. it's the same as gay marriage. Should be acceptable.
Original post by Crossedit
Limiting the discussion to cousins marrying each other is shifting the bar pretty far, in real and metaphorical terms. I think most people would agree that brother sister or parent children relationships are much more disgusting.
I don't really see the point in your argument though, it's not very relevant. It's obvious that any argument you can apply to LGBQT, you can apply to incest. You even have liberals here that agree with me because it works with the same internal logic. That's the real "slippery slope".


People used to (and still do) say that about gay marriage but now it's acceptable.
Reply 34
Original humans all had brown eyes. The north caucasian tribes practiced a lot of incest though. It's the reason indo-europeans who haven't intermingled with local populations have blue and green eyes (mutations). For examples, many North Indians have blue or green eyes. But middle Indians and south Indians almost universally have brown eyes.

Incest is not necessarily bad or good. Sometimes, especially over repeated generations of very close incest, it can have negative consequences but biologically a tribe (of whatever species) that has to practice incest is often backed into a corner, and so mutations can serve to give it a biological advantage.

Incest is widely practiced in the muslim world - the majority or plurality of marriages are cousin marriages. Ancient India had daughters reproducing with fathers and mothers with sons, and brothers with sisters. I don't know much about Native American cultures but the Romans and especially the Roman Era egyptians (google Ptolemy family tree) practiced a lot of incest, although not necessarily for procreation.

As far as I'm aware Christian cultures took a dim view of it, as they did of polygamy and adultery, but historically incest has been quite normal and commonplace.
Reply 35
Original post by ChickenMadness
People used to (and still do) say that about gay marriage but now it's acceptable.


Neither is a real marriage in my opinion. Doesn't matter what "people say".
Original post by Crossedit
No it's not. It's your nature. It's your social conditioning that's telling that you can "rationally" work out sexual morality as if it were some kind of logical puzzle.


On the contrary I don't think sexual morality is a puzzle with an answer or solution. It's far too simplistic to suggest it is. Are you suggesting, though, that I'm wrong to say there's nothing inherently right or wrong about infestuous couples marrying and adopting?
Reply 37
Original post by Reluire
On the contrary I don't think sexual morality is a puzzle with an answer or solution. It's far too simplistic to suggest it is. Are you suggesting, though, that I'm wrong to say there's nothing inherently right or wrong ab, out infestuous couples marrying and adopting?


Yes, it's inherently wrong.
Original post by Crossedit
Yes, it's inherently wrong.


How have you reached that apparently objective conclusion?
Reply 39
Original post by Reluire
How have you reached that apparently objective conclusion?
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You can't prove any moral idea objectively.

People say things like "killing is wrong" but how can you prove that objectively? You can't. It's impossible because it's just an abstract idea. Ultimately it's wrong to you because it feels wrong. It's just what you believe because you were taught to believe it. If you grew up in another culture, say Somalia or Afghanistan in the modern era, you might have a different perspective.

This is the abyss that breaking down traditional morality has led too.
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