Am I the only one that thinks they need to be in a relationship to be happy?

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Reply 40

username1799509

Original post by dp1828

Thanks

Hah :P you seem to have cheered up awfully quick ^^

Reply 41

dp1828

Original post by Redmark

Hah :P you seem to have cheered up awfully quick ^^

Yeah because it was nice to have that someone to talk to about all this :smile:

Thanks!!

Reply 42

username1799509

Original post by dp1828

Yeah because it was nice to have that someone to talk to about all this :smile:

Thanks!!

Well I'm glad you did cheer up at the very least. Sorry to hear you had this situation in the first place =\ Hopefully onward and upward from here? :P

Reply 43

dp1828

Original post by Redmark

Well I'm glad you did cheer up at the very least. Sorry to hear you had this situation in the first place =\ Hopefully onward and upward from here? :P

I suppose most people go through something similar anyway. It had to happen to someone and unfortunately that was me. Definitely! I'm just going to try forget about this and if I don't, I know who to go to :wink:

Reply 44

TorpidPhil

Not quite.

But I need some people who I can rely on emotionally. Doesn't need to be sexually, but that's a nice bonus.

Reply 45

Rakas21

Your a girl, this is not uncommon.

Slight neediness is not a bad thing for a girl.

I wouldnt know.

Original post by beeninetytwo

Depends on how far away the sex person is. If they're local the a few times a week is preferable. If further away then an evening weekly I guess. Or fortnight :pain:

interesting. there might be an issue with the terms and conditions here, never-the-less, i volunteer for experiment..

Reply 48

prettyreckless13

I personally don't feel the same way. I feel as though I'm less happier in a relationship than when I am on my own. :-)

Reply 49

NextGenKing

Original post by prettyreckless13

I personally don't feel the same way. I feel as though I'm less happier in a relationship than when I am on my own. :-)

It's probably who you're with, not the fact you're with someone. Unless you're extremely introverted, which is another matter entirely.

Reply 50

581371

Original post by prettyreckless13

I personally don't feel the same way. I feel as though I'm less happier in a relationship than when I am on my own. :-)

Maybe you've just been in bad relationships booboo

Reply 51

NextGenKing

Original post by theDanIdentity

interesting. there might be an issue with the terms and conditions here, never-the-less, i volunteer for experiment..

The Captain is taking the helm I see! :colone:

Reply 52

RainbowKiwi

I like my freedom so prefer to be single...for now at least lol

Reply 53

dp1828

Original post by prettyreckless13

I personally don't feel the same way. I feel as though I'm less happier in a relationship than when I am on my own. :-)

That's strange. I never feel that way when I am in a relationship.

Reply 54

dp1828

Original post by RainbowKiwi

I like my freedom so prefer to be single...for now at least lol

I like my freedom too but at the same time sometimes I just want someone by my side :smile:

Reply 55

NextGenKing

Original post by dp1828

I like my freedom too but at the same time sometimes I just want someone by my side :smile:

Go into a relationship, sure. But realise that NOTHING on this planet will make you complete. Everyone wants £100,000, but then you make that money and now you want 200,000 and then you make that and now you want 300,000 etc.

Do you see my point here? Nobody in a relationship is always 'happy', because it's not natural/healthy to be constantly happy. It's contentment you're looking for, and that is how I would advise you think about it.

But no, you're not the only one who thinks that way. Many people do, and they're all going to learn the hard way how wrong they are.

Reply 56

dp1828

Original post by NextGenKing

Thanks. I am starting to see everyone's points and it is having a somewhat effect on me. I am going to take a somewhat short break from relationships and all that and just maybe focus on something a little more important. There obviously are other things that make me happy which I could be focusing on more.

Reply 57

Zarek

So a relationship isn't everything in life, but it can be pretty important and particularly if you've had a long spell single. I don't hold with those folk that say you shouldn't rely on someone else for your happiness. You need some companionship and sexy fun in general to be fulfilled.

Reply 58

prettyreckless13

Original post by NextGenKing

It's probably who you're with, not the fact you're with someone. Unless you're extremely introverted, which is another matter entirely.

Perhaps. Although, the thought of a relationship isn't appealing to me right now. I may feel differently over time.

Original post by Zuki

Maybe you've just been in bad relationships booboo

Maybe... :-)

Original post by dp1828

That's strange. I never feel that way when I am in a relationship.

It's probably because you're with people you feel as though you can connect to, which is a good thing obviously. At first, it feels that way for me too, but gradually they just start to irritate me... Lol