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Am i depressed due to lack of interaction with girls?

My life is so dead that I am sad about the fact that I don't have any homework. I have no interactions with girls, none since year 6 (currently in year 10 and an all boys school). I sometimes shed a tear about this. So my question is how do I know whether I am depressed or not?
How do you feel generally?

Personally, I don't think you're depressed. You just need to get yourself out there and maybe start socialising more. Meet new people, meet some girls, have some fun once in a while.

Most of all though, just make sure you're confident and you have good self-esteem.
Original post by LauraMayden1
How do you feel generally?

Personally, I don't think you're depressed. You just need to get yourself out there and maybe start socialising more. Meet new people, meet some girls, have some fun once in a while.

Most of all though, just make sure you're confident and you have good self-esteem.


"have some fun once in a while." :bl: Hmmm, wonder what you mean by that
http://www.nhs.uk/Tools/Pages/depression.aspx

If you score high on this, pop to see your GP. Perhaps you just need to get out more though?
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Original post by LauraMayden1
How do you feel generally?

Personally, I don't think you're depressed. You just need to get yourself out there and maybe start socialising more. Meet new people, meet some girls, have some fun once in a while.

Most of all though, just make sure you're confident and you have good self-esteem.

how can I meet girls?
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Original post by Retired_Messiah
http://www.nhs.uk/Tools/Pages/depression.aspx

If you score high on this, pop to see your GP. Perhaps you just need to get out more though?

I got 4
Original post by Anonymous
I got 4


Unlikely you have depression then. I'm definitely not depressed and I got 3. It's out of 27 so...

Slightly unrelated point: All boys schools sound awful
I got 18...

eh, is this thing reliable?
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Original post by Retired_Messiah
Unlikely you have depression then. I'm definitely not depressed and I got 3. It's out of 27 so...

Slightly unrelated point: All boys schools sound awful

it is
Original post by cbreef
"have some fun once in a while." :bl: Hmmm, wonder what you mean by that


Whatever he regards as fun I suppose :wink:

Original post by Anonymous
how can I meet girls?



Why do you want to meet girls? They shouldn't be your source of fun and happiness.

Try joining some clubs? I really don't know, I'm quite an antisocial girl so I don't actually know where you can meet girls. Just don't let it get you down. Girls aren't everything in life.
Original post by LauraMayden1
Whatever he regards as fun I suppose :wink:




Why do you want to meet girls? They shouldn't be your source of fun and happiness.

Try joining some clubs? I really don't know, I'm quite an antisocial girl so I don't actually know where you can meet girls. Just don't let it get you down. Girls aren't everything in life.


You missed that joke completely, I even tried to give you a hint with the whole banana riding that thing, whatever the F it is. I've never had any "fun" with girls personally.

*Oops just read that top bit again, sorry, misread it first time. I do apologise*
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Original post by Anonymous
My life is so dead that I am sad about the fact that I don't have any homework. I have no interactions with girls, none since year 6 (currently in year 10 and an all boys school). I sometimes shed a tear about this. So my question is how do I know whether I am depressed or not?


You're probably not depressed. You're probably just bored. You're probably also experiencing raging hormonal changes; sometimes you're thinking you're the king of the world, other times, a hopeless child with a bleak future and yet other times a wise old man who doesn't give a **** about anything - especially what the adults around you say, and the peasant fellow classmates? Yeah they're pretty annoying too.

Perhaps? :smile:
(edited 8 years ago)
Original post by cbreef
You missed that joke completely, I even tried to give you a hint with the whole banana riding that thing, whatever the F it is. I've never had any "fun" with girls personally.

*Oops just read that top bit again, sorry, misread it first time. I do apologise*



Haha, I'm totally confused now.
Original post by LauraMayden1
Haha, I'm totally confused now.


About what part? I misread the 1st line of your comment, that's all. The rest of that is irrelevant now
Original post by Anonymous
My life is so dead that I am sad about the fact that I don't have any homework. I have no interactions with girls, none since year 6 (currently in year 10 and an all boys school). I sometimes shed a tear about this. So my question is how do I know whether I am depressed or not?


My situation is arguably worse. I cope fine and rarely even think about it. You just have to put it to the back of your mind. Think about something else you really like.
(edited 8 years ago)
Original post by cbreef
About what part? I misread the 1st line of your comment, that's all. The rest of that is irrelevant now


No nevermind me. The only reason I'm confused is because I'm trying to figure out what exactly you thought I wrote.
I had the same issue and hated being in a girls school but i just distracted myself with priorities such as education and part time jobs, when i got to college and had a chance of tons of interaction with boys, i honestly regretted it. Id go back to that school any day.

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