He claims to like me but he has had another girl round?

I've been seeing a guy for a few months now. Everything has been going great, we text everyday and call often. We exchange very affectionate text messages and have been saying we really like each other, he says things like how he wish he could cuddle me if I was there with him. He tells me very personal things about his life, and I do in return etc.

Then randomly today, he said 'yay, I've got a girl coming round later, we're going to watch a horror movie together, I don't like them much but what the lady wants, she gets.. and I get to cuddle her too so there are advantages', I questioned him to which he said for me to never doubt how much he loves me, how much he wishes he could cuddle me right now and how he wishes I was her, along with 'you know how much I love you really'. But then why on Earth would he invite another girl round, watch movies with her, say he'll cuddle her, then walk her home?

Did he really say that ? omg I would've gone round there and chopped his willy off, cheeky bastard.

He doesn't like you or love you, he's a complete tosser.

Get rid.

Did he really say that ? omg I would've gone round there and chopped his willy off, cheeky bastard.

He doesn't like you or love you, he's a complete tosser.

Get rid.

No no no no no. He's playing mind games and trying to make you jealous. He could be lying (which is pretty awful) and if he's not he is a pretty awful human being. You could talk to him about it or do what he's doing a play mind games with him too. Personally I don't even think he's worth talking it. What an idiot.


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Maybe he expects you to know that he wants an open relationship. Some guys can be very open when it comes to relationships. My ex-boyfriend was. I dumped him because I didn't see much of a relationship in him getting with other girls. (We weren't dating that long at least)
Either that or he's cheating on you. I mean calling someone over to watch a movie is fine, but cuddling with them when you're already seeing someone seems a bit dodgy to me. (90% of the time it leads to sex)
He probably doesn't wish it was you he was cuddling, because if he did, he would be with you and not her. I'd get rid before it gets worse.

I've been seeing a guy for a few months now. Everything has been going great, we text everyday and call often. We exchange very affectionate text messages and have been saying we really like each other, he says things like how he wish he could cuddle me if I was there with him. He tells me very personal things about his life, and I do in return etc.

Then randomly today, he said 'yay, I've got a girl coming round later, we're going to watch a horror movie together, I don't like them much but what the lady wants, she gets.. and I get to cuddle her too so there are advantages', I questioned him to which he said for me to never doubt how much he loves me, how much he wishes he could cuddle me right now and how he wishes I was her, along with 'you know how much I love you really'. But then why on Earth would he invite another girl round, watch movies with her, say he'll cuddle her, then walk her home?

My ex would say very similar things.
He's a dick who thinks he's a 'player'.
Cuddling another girl is rarely platonic.
Either establish a relationship that's purely platonic (difficult/near impossible) or move on and stop talking to him.
He's probably not completely retarded so he will be aware of the way he's making you feel? Did you argue or talk about a guy with him? Other than that I can't think of any reason other than the aforementioned.

Our conversation before was fine (at least I thought so). He asked me if I was excited for uni (my 2nd year, he doesn't go), I said I was looking forward to going out more, meeting new people, and just having new experiences like going on trips. He has always had major issues when I talk about uni life, always. He has said in the past things like 'I know you'll stop talking to me when you go to uni' or 'you'll be too busy on nights out for me'. It's been a year and I stuck around like I said I would. If he hated when I talk about uni that much, why did he even ask about uni in the first place? *Sigh. Straight after he decided to get at me about some other girl.

I just can't believe he had the audacity to tell me directly he was having a girl round, and he let her choose a horror movie specifically so they could cuddle.. I mean who does that? Did he think I would react happily or something? It just confused me, and made me feel pretty **** if I'm honest.

I've been seeing a guy for a few months now. Everything has been going great, we text everyday and call often. We exchange very affectionate text messages and have been saying we really like each other, he says things like how he wish he could cuddle me if I was there with him. He tells me very personal things about his life, and I do in return etc.

Then randomly today, he said 'yay, I've got a girl coming round later, we're going to watch a horror movie together, I don't like them much but what the lady wants, she gets.. and I get to cuddle her too so there are advantages', I questioned him to which he said for me to never doubt how much he loves me, how much he wishes he could cuddle me right now and how he wishes I was her, along with 'you know how much I love you really'. But then why on Earth would he invite another girl round, watch movies with her, say he'll cuddle her, then walk her home?