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Do girls of TSR find this appealing?

I've just decided that I'm completely ****ing insane. After reading several of the joke threads about girls selling their tights or their knickers to perverts, along with reading some of the sugar daddy/sugar baby threads in relationships, it got me thinking about something.

It's not uncommon to hear stories about female students becoming sex workers to finance their education and their living expenses.

Basically, have any girls on here found the idea of being a findom appealing?

Most findoms boast about the fact that they do not have sex with their clients, and also style themselves as "top of the food chain" in the sense that they're desired more than any other women. Say what you like about the notion of being a sex worker, it does seem to be a lucrative pursuit.

Many of these findoms are filthy rich and live a life of luxury, despite seemingly doing nothing at all. They argue that it's "hard work" but it's probably not hard work in the conventional sense. They travel the world. Many of them stay in 5 star hotels and have several holidays per year.

I would post a link to one successful findom but it's not allowed I don't think.

The part I find interesting about this whole thing is the effect on the women themselves. I'm not really interested in the psychology of why financial domination is erotic for some people, but on what less obvious benefits the girls seem to reap.

Many findoms seem to become sirens. They seem to master becoming seductresses that is a different kind of sexy to that of a model or a porn star. It's hard to imagine a girl not becoming extremely confident and self-assured if she has men basically falling over themselves to buy her things.

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hell naw

Allowing a wrinkly dick to penetrate you for money bc having a part-time job is too much effort? Tears. I'll cry at the funeral of your common sense :frown:

As a side note, I applaud the girls that do go ahead and do it, despite being aware of the risks. I just don't feel like I'm personally built to open my legs to bring in the money, no matter what my financial situation is like.
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Reply 3
Original post by thecatwithnohat
hell naw

Allowing a wrinkly dick to penetrate you for money bc having a part-time job is too much effort? Tears. I'll cry at the funeral of your common sense :frown:

As a side note, I applaud the girls that do go ahead and do it, despite being aware of the risks. I just don't feel like I'm personally built to open my legs to bring in the money, no matter what my financial situation is like.


I'm not sure you understood the technical part of financial domination.

Part-time jobs are not so much "too much effort" but rather not enough money. I suppose, then, it's a toss-up between how principled you are and how much money you want to make.
Original post by Cup o' Tea
I'm not sure you understood the technical part of financial domination.

Part-time jobs are not so much "too much effort" but rather not enough money. I suppose, then, it's a toss-up between how principled you are and how much money you want to make.


Perhaps not, since I had to look up 'findoms' on Google and urban dictionary :lol:

But come on, would you rather lose touch with your morals and self respect just to gain some extra 1000s in your bank account than work your way up like everyone else? (Still have no idea if I'm hitting the nail on the head but ill use the excuse that it's late for my lame argument xx)
Reply 5
Wait so there are people who just spent money given to them for being good looking and not even having to do anything other than spend money and look attractive?


Sign me the **** up
Reply 6
Original post by thecatwithnohat
Perhaps not, since I had to look up 'findoms' on Google and urban dictionary :lol:

But come on, would you rather lose touch with your morals and self respect just to gain some extra 1000s in your bank account than work your way up like everyone else? (Still have no idea if I'm hitting the nail on the head but ill use the excuse that it's late for my lame argument xx)


No, lol, financial domination is something women do but I'm male.

I've found many interviews around the web of findoms trying to explain their craft. Much of the time, though, they fail to make it into something that can fit into the reality of a normal person. I think really the normal person will always view it as a cruel kind of manipulation that borders on theft.
Original post by thecatwithnohat
Perhaps not, since I had to look up 'findoms' on Google and urban dictionary :lol:

But come on, would you rather lose touch with your morals and self respect just to gain some extra 1000s in your bank account than work your way up like everyone else? (Still have no idea if I'm hitting the nail on the head but ill use the excuse that it's late for my lame argument xx)


Are u hot


Original post by Cup o' Tea
No, lol, financial domination is something women do but I'm male.

I've found many interviews around the web of findoms trying to explain their craft. Much of the time, though, they fail to make it into something that can fit into the reality of a normal person. I think really the normal person will always view it as a cruel kind of manipulation that borders on theft.


I'll look them up in a mo
Original post by thecatwithnohat
are u hot




i'll look them up in a mo


hoeeeeeeeee
Original post by Novascope
hoeeeeeeeee


I see why people find you irritating :lol:
Original post by Cup o' Tea
I've just decided that I'm completely ****ing insane. After reading several of the joke threads about girls selling their tights or their knickers to perverts, along with reading some of the sugar daddy/sugar baby threads in relationships, it got me thinking about something.

It's not uncommon to hear stories about female students becoming sex workers to finance their education and their living expenses.

Basically, have any girls on here found the idea of being a findom appealing?

Most findoms boast about the fact that they do not have sex with their clients, and also style themselves as "top of the food chain" in the sense that they're desired more than any other women. Say what you like about the notion of being a sex worker, it does seem to be a lucrative pursuit.

Many of these findoms are filthy rich and live a life of luxury, despite seemingly doing nothing at all. They argue that it's "hard work" but it's probably not hard work in the conventional sense. They travel the world. Many of them stay in 5 star hotels and have several holidays per year.

I would post a link to one successful findom but it's not allowed I don't think.

The part I find interesting about this whole thing is the effect on the women themselves. I'm not really interested in the psychology of why financial domination is erotic for some people, but on what less obvious benefits the girls seem to reap.

Many findoms seem to become sirens. They seem to master becoming seductresses that is a different kind of sexy to that of a model or a porn star. It's hard to imagine a girl not becoming extremely confident and self-assured if she has men basically falling over themselves to buy her things.


I would do it! free stuff, why not
Hold on a sec.

What?
Reply 12
I had a friend who done this for awhile, She said it was a huge amount of effort. You've got to spend ALOT of time talking to people and self marketing yourself. Plus you need to maintain the same attitude and be willing to send 'suggestive' photos.

While you certainly don't have sex with the men, it is expected to talk very dirty and see plenty of them. You need to be able to separate this part of yourself from your normal lifestyle.

Saying that; I'd give it a try.
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Original post by thecatwithnohat
hell naw

Allowing a wrinkly dick to penetrate you for money bc having a part-time job is too much effort? Tears. I'll cry at the funeral of your common sense :frown:

As a side note, I applaud the girls that do go ahead and do it, despite being aware of the risks. I just don't feel like I'm personally built to open my legs to bring in the money, no matter what my financial situation is like.


Take their money and leave. Will teach them not to be so beta.
Original post by Reue
I had a friend who done this for awhile, She said it was a huge amount of effort. You've got to spend ALOT of time talking to people and self marketing yourself. Plus you need to maintain the same attitude and be willing to send 'suggestive' photos.

While you certainly don't have sex with the men, it is expected to talk very dirty and see plenty of them. You need to be able to separate this part of yourself from your normal lifestyle.

Saying that; I'd give it a try.


How much did she make, including gifts in kind? I always assume the whole thing is exaggerated wherever possible. There are definitely "celebrity" findoms who make six figures but your average chancer is going to get next to nothing or it will be no better than any other job.
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Original post by scrotgrot
How much did she make, including gifts in kind? I always assume the whole thing is exaggerated wherever possible. There are definitely "celebrity" findoms who make six figures but your average chancer is going to get next to nothing or it will be no better than any other job.


Yeah a pretty decent amount. Probably worked out at about £30-£50 an hour. Takes awhile to build up but once it does its much easier to just keep the momentum going. Much like any business really.
****ing hell... Think people seriously need to think about getting new hobbies. So ****ing weird.
Findoms....
I don't find this appealing ...
Original post by thecatwithnohat
hell naw

Allowing a wrinkly dick to penetrate you for money bc having a part-time job is too much effort? Tears. I'll cry at the funeral of your common sense :frown:

As a side note, I applaud the girls that do go ahead and do it, despite being aware of the risks. I just don't feel like I'm personally built to open my legs to bring in the money, no matter what my financial situation is like.


If I was a girl I would just rake in the money from it. You don't know how lucky you are. You can make tons of cash just by using what you were born with

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