Boyfriend doesnt like me being a tomboy.

You can still look good going out in pants?

I dunno what it is with tight white jeans on a female but they're incredible tbh


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Why did he date you in the first place if he didnt like the way you dressed...?

Don't do things just to please your boyfriend. If you don't feel comfortable in skirts and dresses then don't wear them. It's not up to him.
I hate skirts and dresses also.
Why does it make a difference anyway? Does he spend your time together constantly staring at your legs? ^.-

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He asked me how I would feel if he suddenly wanted to dress in a feminine way with jewellery and a skirt which is a good point but 'male' clothing is basically practical but womens isnt 'feminine' clothing is often not (heels, skirts etc).

I dont wear skirts and dresses as I dont feel like me in them and i cant even walk in heels they annoy me. My boyfriend said that he doesnt want me in pants when going out etc as he might as well go out with his mate if im going to be a tomboy. Why cant i be his gf and mate though.

Why are skirts and heels feminine anyway i mean i know we think of them as feminine in society but looking from a biological point of view clothes are just pieces of cloth i still have female sexual organs. What makes a skirt feminine? Why couldnt it have been a masculine item and pants feminine?

Would

I barely ever wear skirts and dresses just because I feel more comfortable in skinny jeans and as a dancer I'm most commonly in leggings etc etc for ease of movement so appreciate the sport comment.

If you like your clothes and feel confident and comfortable wearing them then that's all that matters. You shouldn't be forced to wear things you don't want to and as your boyfriend he should appreciate and respect your wishes. Not prying but if he cannot come to terms with this then he most likely is not worth keeping.

If however you decide you want to try a 'feminine' (I agree it's stupid to label clothes by gender) spin on your usual attire you could go for a skinny jean, ankle boot - crop top-leather jacket or oversized jumper look. It would be edgy without conforming to skirts and dresses yet would please his gender bias standards. But I would only do this if he is really worth it and if you feel it is not against your will.


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Thanks, he doesnt seem to mind most of the time when out its just during discussions it comes out when i mention something he'l say im a tomboy and that its like im his mate because im in pants all the time.

Thanks for the advice i do try to wear feminine tops i like the leather jacket idea.

He is probably bluffing with this. Just say go ahead, if it is what you feel comfortable in.
Most men don't wear womens jeans/jackets/trainers either. But they are masculine?
Seriously it shouldn't be decided by
what clothes your wearing.
By your first post about he might aswell go out with his mates because you wear jeans and such, says to me he
just sees you as female sexual organs
to show off. As dresses supposedly enchance the bottom and other areas. Either that or he really wants a smoking hot female (showing all her bits) on his
arm because that is cool.

He sounds immature if I am honest if he is so bothered by your dress code.

Or aquire a old fashioned long floor
length dress, with a no cleavage and long sleaves.
See what he thinks about that



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He should get a different girlfriend then haha. Desperation. Going out with a girl he doesn't even like the look of lol.