Im eating a burger Im out with friends Im watching TV Im so sleepy today
and the thing is, she is not attractive to me, so I don't really care.
And if I don't reply, ill feel like a bit of a dick
What do i do now
Not replying is what occasionally gets me, but there comes a time you have to end it. So be mean (in your mind, she won't care a week from now) and say 'Why are you telling me?'
Or do what I occasionally do, I start being really boring. To the point I'm being facetious. I take a little comment they make and run with it. So for example - "You're being boring" 'No, I am boring. I like sitting' "You're not really..." 'Sitting is my favourite thing. I'm doing it right now'
I take it a lot further than that usually. It's a good thing to do, they're not offended, you've got what you wanted (for them to leave you alone) and they feel like they've made the decision. Win Win.
Not replying is what occasionally gets me, but there comes a time you have to end it. So be mean (in your mind, she won't care a week from now) and say 'Why are you telling me?'
Or do what I occasionally do, I start being really boring. To the point I'm being facetious. I take a little comment they make and run with it. So for example - "You're being boring" 'No, I am boring. I like sitting' "You're not really..." 'Sitting is my favourite thing. I'm doing it right now'
I take it a lot further than that usually. It's a good thing to do, they're not offended, you've got what you wanted (for them to leave you alone) and they feel like they've made the decision. Win Win.
hahaha that is brilliant, the being facetious strategy
I'm probably the same too. I can't ignore some people without an answer. (If I do it's usually a group) If I were you the best way is to just try not to drag the 'life story' into a convo.
Not replying is what occasionally gets me, but there comes a time you have to end it. So be mean (in your mind, she won't care a week from now) and say 'Why are you telling me?'
Or do what I occasionally do, I start being really boring. To the point I'm being facetious. I take a little comment they make and run with it. So for example - "You're being boring" 'No, I am boring. I like sitting' "You're not really..." 'Sitting is my favourite thing. I'm doing it right now'
I take it a lot further than that usually. It's a good thing to do, they're not offended, you've got what you wanted (for them to leave you alone) and they feel like they've made the decision. Win Win.
You seem to be very skilled in this faux interest sort of thing
Like every few hoursIm eating a burgerIm out with friendsIm watching TVIm so sleepy todayand the thing is, she is not attractive to me, so I don't really care.And if I don't reply, ill feel like a bit of a dick What do i do now
I will later! It's three hours long. Do you do yoga?
i know it's 3 hrs but it's a constant melody, at least listen to 4 mins like a reg song and sometimes yes, I do. I just get on my mat n I need this music to calm the raging storms inside of me. It's very spiritual for me and I thought you'd like it
i know it's 3 hrs but it's a constant melody, at least listen to 4 mins like a reg song and sometimes yes, I do. I just get on my mat n I need this music to calm the raging storms inside of me. It's very spiritual for me and I thought you'd like it