My lovely, I myself was diagnosed (by a teacher) with Aspergers at 4 (was officially diagnosed later), and there's no shame in being anywhere on the autistic spectrum. I have a few really close, amazing friends, I'm about to get my GCSE results, and I'm even dating a lovely transgendered girl over the Internet and have been for 9 months. It's not stopped me, like I've always thought it would, from doing any of those things, even with mental illness slapping me in the face alongside it. Many of the people I know have Aspergers or some form of autism, or have such traits - a couple of my few friends, my girlfriend, some of my family members... and I adore them all the more for it. Those are some of my favourite people in all the world for being Aspies, to be honest with you. I love hearing about their special interests, and having someone to be awkward with me in scary social situations.
If you ever, ever need a chat, please, drop me a message. You are a beautiful person regardless, my darling, I promise.
But yes. I definitely encourage you to see a psychologist and be diagnosed, rather than try and label yourself; it will do you no good and get you fretting when you may just be a little different anyway. I wish you all the best <3