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Reply 1
Stop looking for a boyfriend?

I havent had an official 'boyfriend' for 2 years am i sad? No.

Just have fun with friends do new things, this should improve your shyness and not getting out much. Oh and stop worrying about not having a boyfriend, its not the be all and end all of life.
6 months? As if that's a big deal...
You may be feeling lonely, but that shouldn't make you feel the need to get a boyfriend. Don't think that a boyfriend will miraculously change your life and everything will be sweet. Firstly try and find some friends or if you have friends, just try and put a bit more effort into socialising and going out with them. I'm shy too, but we shouldn't use it as an excuse. good luck.
I haven't had a boyfriend in... what's that number again... my age... 18 years? Yeah, 'snot fun. But 6 months is nothing, if you met someone before chances are you'll meet someone again. :smile: Just get out there. Even if you feel uncomfortable doing it, no one is going to notice you if you stay in your room all day.
usually ppl complain that they NEVER had a bf/gf.... 6 months seems very little or at least compared to my time... hmmm 20 years?! now hope that makes u feel better/happy :smile:
seriously though its no problem and stop looking otherwise ull never find one
Reply 5
prob if you go searching you always find the wrong ones and settle for anyone. just enjoy being single and when you finally come across someone, it would have been worth the wait.

and anyways, being single has its pros to.
Don't worry about it - 6 months is nothing and someone special will come along when you least expect it, just go out, have fun and enjoy being single... lots of people your age haven't ever had a bf/gf before so nothing to stress about :smile:
so you're the 'been around the block' type then :wink:
Reply 8
I have to be honest, that made me laugh aloud.

Go wild and explore what it's like to be single. You never know, you might actually enjoy life without another person propping you up.
Reply 9
-hugs_for_everyone-
I'm a really shy person...
Never really get out much...
And never talk much...

I just don't know what to do.

:frown:


Move to england and go out with me. Lol. Seriously though 6 months isnt that big a deal. I average ATLEAST 6 months between girlfriends, usually more like a year. Its been about 9 months so far. Infact that post could easily have been written by me (except im male). Just enjoy yourself. Go out with friends at each opportunity. Dont go looking for a guy (unless you've found someone you like, in which case GO GO GO), you wont find one. One will come along whilst you arent looking :smile:. For now ill give you come comfort rep, just to be nice :smile:.

Anyway you're still young, still much time left to meet someone :smile:.
Reply 10
6 months? If your relationships were closer together than that then I'd think you had problems, you shouldn't really just go from guy to guy (or indeed feel like you should). I haven't been with anyone for about 18 months and I don't see that changing in the near future. You don't need to drag some guy around labelled as your 'boyfriend' to be happy... or do you?
Ha, 6 months? It's been 2 and a half years for me...I go out all the time with friends and I socialise loads, always meeting new people. I have to say I've had a good few opportunities with people but I just cannot seem to regain any interest in boyfriends...I do want a relationship but there just doesn't seem to be anyone out there I want to be with. I think I'm just way too picky but I just don't LIKE anyone and haven't in over 2 years!
Reply 12
Oh my lord. Heres an idea stop posting on the internet and go outside
6 months?
get over it!
i was single for over 2 years and i wasn't getting upset by that fact
Reply 14
I don't have a gf for 1 year girl... Maybe we could meet :P Just joking. Really you should not feel bad about it, you'll find someone soon enough, and even if you don't it ain't the end of the world
Its probably the goth look you've got going on...
Um get real, you have your whole life to 'get a boyfriend' why now?
have fun and do what you want to do
Reply 17
try 20 years!
Reply 18
Lol your only 16 :rolleyes: there are way bigger things to be worried about out there
Six months... lol

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