I started uni last term and everything was and still is great, I love my new friends etc but one. We normally get on really well except she's recently, say since christmas been really getting on my nerves. When she started university she didn't drink and she didn't go out. Now she's completely changed that and started binge drinking not because she wants to but because she wants to appear "cool" to others. Every morning she'll moan about how drunk she was or whatever so that people think she's really cool. It's the kind of behaviour you'd expect from a 15 year old really.
She also lies, about really stupid things like when she went to bed or how many people she pulled on a night out. Sick of it.
We're now househunting and she's irritating me again. It's me organising all the visits and co-ordinating the whole affair, ringing people and doing all the work. She's not putting in any effort and moans about houses to me as if it's my fault that they aren't what we want. At least i'm trying!
One of my biggest issues is that she is eating my food. I know this because she cuts cheese in certain ways, always has glasses of OJ when mine has run out etc, it's just bloody obvious basically. Anyway, she gets so bothered when i ask her for food so i don't bother anymore. You know, just a slice of bread or whatever but the cheeky thing won't ever say yes or if she does assumes it's fine to drink my tropicana or expensive cheese. These are things i buy as a treat and are my extravagant items that I want to enjoy. It's just not fair.
My latest problem is that in october she bought some shopping for me because i had forgotten my card, it was £17 but i called it twenty for the sake of it. for the week after she was using me as a cash machine basically and asking me to buy her drinks willy nilly. I almost certainly paid her back £10+ more if not the whole amount. My problem now is that she seperately owed another mutual friend £20 so instead of paying him she's decided to cut out the middle man, i.e. her, and say that I owe him £20. He's not pestering me for money that I shouldn't be giving anyone. I feel very out of pocket.
This girl is an embarassment. She's constantly showing off an behaves like an idiot a lot of the time. Her life seems to revolve around being cool and showing everyone that. She steals from me and tries to embarass me infront of other people.
What i want to know is how can I:
A) let her know i'm aware she's stealing from me and prevent it
B) tell her she's behaving like a 15 year old who's just discoverd boys and alcohol
C) approach her about this money thing, keeping in mind it was four months ago that she lent me the money in the first place and i doubt she'll even remember using me as a cash point
eurgh sorry mega rant, thanks!