is my (platonic) relationship over? She&#x27;s not replying to my texts! =(

Original post by TwinnyP

Why are they ignoring you then. Genius.

I don't know... =(

Original post by Odd socks

I've hugged people who weren't important to me, it's not a big deal. You need to let it go, maybe try spending some time with some of your other friends?

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t is a big deal when you barely get any hugs at all. I oly allow three people to hug me.. If I cut them out I will onyl have one person to hug Their hugs are very important to me, almost all of them made me feel happy (except for 4 which seemed weak and lacking.)I've spend time with my other friends.

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Original post by MylittlePlusle

I don't know... =(

Because they don't care about you. And to them 2 years is nothing. Your friendship can't be that strong if they are disowning you.

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Original post by MylittlePlusle

I don't know... =(

Because you come across as weird. I haven't been hugged in years, big whoop. Yeah you might have some psychological craving for love and affection but you need to bury it if you want to look like a normal human being. I would recommend seeing a shrink.

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Original post by Andy98

People spend time with people they don't even like all the time. Grow up and realise what matters to other people - you may be obsessed with hugs but most people aren't.

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I wouldn't spend time with people I don' like it would be a waste of my time and I would be leading them on.

We have things in common and we get along..

I'm not obsessed with hugs I've only had 10 this year.

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Original post by MylittlePlusle

Sometimes you have to, or feel like you have to due to certain circumstances.

As has already been said, people drift apart.

The fact you counted hugs shows me you are obsessed.

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Original post by Andy98

I do have a craving for love and affection I want cuddles and forehead kisses and cheek kisses ad other types of affection. I see to reason to try to hide who I am.

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Original post by MylittlePlusle

I do have a craving for love and affection I want cuddles and forehead kisses and cheek kisses ad other types of affection. I see to reason to try to hide who I am.

Get a GF then.

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SuperVegito

You come across as clingy, perhaps she just wants some alone time?

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Original post by TwinnyP

Get a GF then.

Someone needs to get this guy laid or give him a big taste of reality. But he ain't listening, so I'm out

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Original post by TwinnyP

Get a GF then.

That's easier said then done.

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Original post by blaze9990

You come across as clingy, perhaps she just wants some alone time?

She's had A LOT of alone time...

Original post by Andy98

Sometimes you have to, or feel like you have to due to certain circumstances.

As has already been said, people drift apart.

The fact you counted hugs shows me you are obsessed.
I can't think of a time when you would have to do that
We've not drifted apart.
I don't want to lose them or get over them or forget about them. I need them.
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Original post by Andy98

Someone needs to get this guy laid or give him a big taste of reality. But he ain't listening, so I'm out

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You can't help the helpless. He wants to be this way.

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Original post by Andy98

Someone needs to get this guy laid or give him a big taste of reality. But he ain't listening, so I'm out

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I don't need sexual interocurse, I need my friends.

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Original post by MylittlePlusle

That's easier said then done.

Not at all, you seem to fall for every girl you meet. You admitted that in the other thread.

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Original post by MylittlePlusle

She's had A LOT of alone time...

Three months of silence says you have drifted apart....

Original post by TwinnyP

You can't help the helpless. He wants to be this way.

Indeed

Original post by MylittlePlusle

I don't need sexual interocurse, I need my friends.

You also need to understand the world as everyone else sees it.

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Original post by TwinnyP

Not at all, you seem to fall for every girl you meet. You admitted that in the other thread.

Oh, no. I don't really fall in love with anyone.Whenever I do have a crush I always get rejected anyway.

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Original post by Andy98

You also need to understand the world as everyone else sees it.

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This is probably the easiest way to explain it. OP needs to look at it from her side. What is she getting from OP. I doubt she counts hugs.

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Original post by MylittlePlusle

Oh, no. I don't really fall in love with anyone.Whenever I do have a crush I always get rejected anyway.

You sound like a real catch.

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Original post by Andy98

Three months of silence says you have drifted apart....

Indeed

You also need to understand the world as everyone else sees it.

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It's not three months, she texted me a bit

Original post by TwinnyP

This is probably the easiest way to explain it. OP needs to look at it from her side. What is she getting from OP. I doubt she counts hugs.

I know that she doesn't count hugs Everyone is different.

Original post by TwinnyP

You sound like a real catch.

I've been told that I'm a nice person and things like that.

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