What can I wear to look more approachable?

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I've always tended to approach women in dark clothes. a lot spanish an french women dress like this. like a black cardigan hair up in a pony tail and hoop earrings and then any old jeans with chelsea boots.

but thats just me.

first 3 are very youthful. I associate it with a sort of throw back to dressing like a little girl. like either girl still thinks quite young, or (if shes older) trying to get away with dressing younger before she gets passed that age window. these skirts are all cut around half way up the thigh so this implies to me that girl isn't getting in touch with a traditional old fashioned style of womanly dress. and that she's either naive to how much thigh shes showing off or she's actively seeking out male eyes. if the skirt was above the knees ok. but i mean the skirt goes so high that they cover about as much leg as hot pants. hot pants have a name in a jamaica. they call them pum pum shorts. pum pum is slang for vagina.

the polka dot skirt is of course knee length and has the same youthful feel but also indicates a bit more awareness of how eye catching thigh can be. or indicates more of a a true traditional vibe.

thats my opinion anyway.

Wear anything revealing

They're really pretty skirts/dresses, I love floral stuff too I think it depends on where you wear them. You might not look so approachable if you wear them just to go to town or other casual places. They look quite dressy and quite short, so you might seem less approachable, like you are trying too hard/think you're better than other girls/guys might think you'll reject them. But they'd be super for a special occasion, or maybe you could dress them down with a really simple top?

A t-shirt which says 'APPROACH ME'.

A smile

Never seen one of those

Okay thanks for your opinion I've never worn jeans I feel like a boy in them so don't think I ever would, and I find hoop earrings look chavvy but could try chelsea boots and a pony tail though. What's wrong with being young and enjoying it though?

I always wear thick black tights (60 denier) with dresses/skirts so I can assure you no one sees my 'pum pum' (I'm quarter Jamaican but never heard of pum pum shorts lol).

Hi everyone I'm looking for some outfit ideas and I've already made a start! I used to wear all dark clothes to look invisible but now I'm into wearing really feminine stuff everyday not just for occasion. What do you think of the following outfits would they make me look approachable? Or what would you think if a girl wearing these kind of outfits approached you?

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/30/ac/1c/30ac1c6b7083567e2752b914e7a9648a.jpg
(I actually have this dress but unfortunately my legs aren't quite as long!)

http://picture-cdn.wheretoget.it/vtir3u-l-610x610-skirt-mini+skirt-floral-floral+skirts-summer+outfits-blouse-girly-teenager-skater+skirt-mint+green-pink-floral+skater+skirt-fashion-pretty-cute-casual-denim-jeans+jacket-rolled+sle.jpg

http://40.media.tumblr.com/9a26a7edf126503c798a28aee8408083/tumblr_n8f8g2CQhL1shus71o1_500.jpg

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_1eI7tS4s_Bg/TKLDD8t2sgI/AAAAAAAAfg4/b6fgBO3GQTs/s1600/g.jpg

I'm into lots of florals, polka dots, flared skirts and dresses, cardigans and shawls and wearing my hair long and wavy with flower clips.
Let me know what you think of those and post lists and pictures of outfits and items that would make a woman seem more approachable and friendly

Cheers x

I've always tended to approach women in dark clothes. a lot spanish an french women dress like this. like a black cardigan hair up in a pony tail and hoop earrings and then any old jeans with chelsea boots.

but thats just me.

first 3 are very youthful. I associate it with a sort of throw back to dressing like a little girl. like either girl still thinks quite young, or (if shes older) trying to get away with dressing younger before she gets passed that age window. these skirts are all cut around half way up the thigh so this implies to me that girl isn't getting in touch with a traditional old fashioned style of womanly dress. and that she's either naive to how much thigh shes showing off or she's actively seeking out male eyes. if the skirt was above the knees ok. but i mean the skirt goes so high that they cover about as much leg as hot pants. hot pants have a name in a jamaica. they call them pum pum shorts. pum pum is slang for vagina.

the polka dot skirt is of course knee length and has the same youthful feel but also indicates a bit more awareness of how eye catching thigh can be. or indicates more of a a true traditional vibe.

thats my opinion anyway.

OP, are you this same girl who claims to be 24 and complains that she's never had a boyfriend, asks how to get a boyfriend then throws everyone's solutions back in their faces because you didn't want to try any of it? Dressing isn't going to make you more "approachable". It might increase your attractiveness somewhat.

Wear a t-shirt of a band you like - then people will come up and talk about the band.