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Wife says she doesn't 'feel' anything when kissing or during sexual activities

1. Says she loves me.
2. Says she think's i'm cute is attracted, but would like me to put on weight.
3. Says it isn't physical attraction , says maybe she's asexual.
3. Doesn't really flirt with me.
4. VERY loyal.
5. Loves me, is commited.
6. Has never done anything with anyone else before i'm the first, nor does she ever masurbate , ever.

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Anonymous #1
OP
thanks, it's been like this from day one by the way, so it isn't disconnecting.
She's your wife? Didn't you know she was like this before you married her?
How does this make you feel?
I'm sure if you go down on her with some good technique she will. Google some p****y eating techniques. :smile: best of luck.
URnot good enuf for her
Original post by Anonymous
1. Says she loves me.
2. Says she think's i'm cute is attracted, but would like me to put on weight.
3. Says it isn't physical attraction , says maybe she's asexual.
3. Doesn't really flirt with me.
4. VERY loyal.
5. Loves me, is commited.
6. Has never done anything with anyone else before i'm the first, nor does she ever masurbate , ever.


i could say much of the above about my pet labrador
Why did you marry her if you knew that there was no mutual sexual attraction and knew that this would affect you?
Original post by Anonymous
I'm sure if you go down on her with some good technique she will. Google some p****y eating techniques. :smile: best of luck.


LOOOOOOOL! Really?
2 inches detected.

Spoiler

Was this an arranged marriage?
BE CAREFUL!

I don't think you are attracted to her in any way.

Perhaps there is something-else she really wanted from you, within herself.

But, do you really enjoy her at-all while having sex? If yes OR no....there are a lot of issues surrounding this.
Few of them: maybe you release very quickly, or no romantic moves to turn her on before sex, or probably......

.....you know what? I need more information before I can conclude.

Thanks!
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Ursin
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Maybe she has a low sex drive? Have you tried asking her to explain more?
She probably is just asexual. Is this a problem for you guys though?
Have you actually read up on what "asexual" means? Have you come across the term "romantic asexual"?

If you also don't mind me asking, has she ever expressed the want to feel "things"? Like, feel something when kissing or whatever
Original post by arfah
Seems like she's assexual

I think you mean asexual :giggle:.
Original post by arfah
Ok

:console:
Does she take any medication?
Lol no offence but how are a bunch of students supposed to help with your marital problems?
I feel that this is something you really should ascertain before getting married then you actually know if you're sexually compatible or not.

Some people who end up waiting for marriage to have sex end up having very low sex driver because they were never really know the idea in the first place


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