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I'm a muslim and in a relationship AMA

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What kind of relationship?
Are you male or female
How old are you


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Is it halal or haram?
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What kind of relationship?
Are you male or female
How old are you


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Haram relationship, male and 19
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Is it halal or haram?


Haram unfortunately
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Haram unfortunately


Why don't you make it halal by getting your families involved bro? :smile:
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Haram relationship, male and 19


Is the person you're with muslim?
Propose to her 😉



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Why don't you make it halal by getting your families involved bro? :smile:


Because we are too young and it's too soon, we do talk about getting married one day though. My intentions are pure with her but I guess that doesn't really make it any less haram 😔
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Is the person you're with muslim?
Propose to her 😉



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Yes she is and it's not the right time atm, we are both too Young and currently studying. It'll make everything harder for us.
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Yes she is and it's not the right time atm, we are both too Young and currently studying. It'll make everything harder for us.


I mean if you intend to marry her, you might aswell have a nikah and have the wedding later on after you study
I mean if you can be in a relationship then you can do that too :smile: it'll be worth it
Just speak to her parents



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What does the Quran actually say in regards to dating?

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Making a relationship halal? Da **** is this ****. You religious nut-jobs.
Hmmmm....something popped into my head then. But idk what to say....maybe....good luck? :s-smilie:

What are you studying? :h:
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I mean if you intend to marry her, you might aswell have a nikah and have the wedding later on after you study
I mean if you can be in a relationship then you can do that too :smile: it'll be worth it
Just speak to her parents



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My plan was to get married when I'm 24-25, it was never my intention to be in a relationship at this age, it just sort of happened. So to get my nikah done at 19? That's huge, our parents would never accept that. Well mine might but I doubt hers will as we are of different ethnicities.


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It's completely forbidden
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My plan was to get married when I'm 24-25, it was never my intention to be in a relationship at this age, it just sort of happened. So to get my nikah done at 19? That's huge, our parents would never accept that. Well mine might but I doubt hers will as we are of different ethnicities.




It's completely forbidden


So what If you're different ethnicities?
You do intend to marry her right? So why not now
I mean if you're not financially stable just speak to her parents or whatever
(Men don't need parents permission) for nikah and then when you're financially stable have a wedding
It's up to you tho
It'll be better than a haram relationship imo



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Original post by Anonymous

It's completely forbidden


I mean quote-wise

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Original post by spiritless98
So what If you're different ethnicities?
You do intend to marry her right? So why not now
I mean if you're not financially stable just speak to her parents or whatever
(Men don't need parents permission) for nikah and then when you're financially stable have a wedding
It's up to you tho
It'll be better than a haram relationship imo



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Well she's asian and you know how asian parents are like don't you, they are very cultural and I believe it'll be really hard to convince them to allow her to marry a black guy(well I am black but I have the same skin colour as her)
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Making a relationship halal? Da **** is this ****. You religious nut-jobs.


This made me lol but that's haram
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Well she's asian and you know how asian parents are like don't you, they are very cultural and I believe it'll be really hard to convince them to allow her to marry a black guy(well I am black but I have the same skin colour as her)


You can't say that without trying
Just convince them! I mean if you're both persistent it'll work out
Not all asians are like that
And honestly grow some balls and go ask them
If you truly loved her you wouldn't have a problem with doing that



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What does the Quran actually say in regards to dating?

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If muslims were to marry, we would have to marry some one from the book, which means any one who follow the Quran, Bible or the Torah.

This is what it says in the Quran.

The Quran in Sura 5:5 says:. . . Likewise you are permitted to marry chaste believing women [Muslims] or chaste women among the people who were given the Scripture [Jews and Christians] . . . . (Maududi, vol. 1, p. 427)

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