Moving on, advice?

I liked this girl for 2 years, i guess you could say i got friendzoned, but then in march she said she liked me in the same way. She was stressed about work and exams and i said we would put it off until exams are over because i didnt want to force her in to anything. After exams in June time ish, it was'nt the same and she said she did not like me anymore, this ****ed me up. I still really like her but she has moved on evidently, even talked to me about the guys she likes. We went out as a big group a few weeks back and we sat together in the cinema and she brings it up a lot, even said we should go again together, but i feel like, idk. I love her, i cant forget about her but i feel like she will be creeped out if i say i still like her, i just want to know what she thinks, i feel like there is only so many times you can get rejected. She is starting to go out to house parties and im scared every week that her friends snapchat stories will be full of her and a guy, i kid on im over her but months after she put me down after i thought the girl i loved for 2 years was going to date me, i still have feelings for her. I think the problem is i dont really talk to other girls, how do i go about meeting new ones? Sorry for this jumbled piece of illiterate trash, but i typed this all in one go, i want my raw feelings to show i guess.

Wow. Okay first of all, she's ****ing with you, she doesn't like you... Secondly, best way to move on is to ignore. Pretend she doesn't even exist, takes time but works. Lastly, guessing you're at college, In which case you're surrounded by women, walk up to one and say hi.

Stop focusing on relationships. You're young. Get a good education, get a good job and earn money. At this age you think you love someone; but you don't. It's a fact.

Stop focusing on relationships. You're young. Get a good education, get a good job and earn money. At this age you think you love someone; but you don't. It's a fact.

I try not to, but its just natural for me, I have been attracted to her for a while and all my friends are in relationships so in a way i feel left out, i understand what you are saying however

There's no way you could possibly know that....

Stop focusing on relationships. You're young. Get a good education, get a good job and earn money. At this age you think you love someone; but you don't. It's a fact.

At a young age you do not know what REAL love is.

I liked this girl for 2 years, i guess you could say i got friendzoned, but then in march she said she liked me in the same way. She was stressed about work and exams and i said we would put it off until exams are over because i didnt want to force her in to anything. After exams in June time ish, it was'nt the same and she said she did not like me anymore, this ****ed me up. I still really like her but she has moved on evidently, even talked to me about the guys she likes. We went out as a big group a few weeks back and we sat together in the cinema and she brings it up a lot, even said we should go again together, but i feel like, idk. I love her, i cant forget about her but i feel like she will be creeped out if i say i still like her, i just want to know what she thinks, i feel like there is only so many times you can get rejected. She is starting to go out to house parties and im scared every week that her friends snapchat stories will be full of her and a guy, i kid on im over her but months after she put me down after i thought the girl i loved for 2 years was going to date me, i still have feelings for her. I think the problem is i dont really talk to other girls, how do i go about meeting new ones? Sorry for this jumbled piece of illiterate trash, but i typed this all in one go, i want my raw feelings to show i guess.

I'm pretty much the only single one in my friendship group too, I've been single for two years so there for I'm used to it and I'd quite happily stay single for the rest of my life haha.

Just focus on you. Girlfriends will always come and go, but self worth is more important than relying on someone else for your happiness.

Just because you didn't at that age doesn't mean everyone else doesn't either... People mature at different rates.

This explains alot...

Trust me, looking back on it I thought I loved different guys. I didn't. There's a difference between lust and love.

Of course you can have a love for someone, but at such young ages you are not capable of experiencing a deep love.


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Trust me, looking back on it I thought I loved different guys. I didn't. There's a difference between lust and love.

Of course you can have a love for someone, but at such young ages you are not capable of experiencing a deep love.


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Your opinion is very insensitive towards the many young people out there who are in love and are in happy relationships. My grandparents fell in love when they were 16, married at 18, and spent the rest of their lives together, my mother fell in love when she was 19, guess what, she married him, I fell in love when I was 17, we're now engaged, believe it or not after years have gone by. Love isn't the same for everybody, "You think you know what love is at this age", honey everybody thinks differently, lots of people fall in love at a young age and their sole prerogative shouldn't be just to get a career, life should be about people, feeling things, making mistakes, learning from them, it should not be about him focusing on making money, people have to meet people, integrate, socialise, learn... so offer the guy some real advice and maybe talk him through some options, because your advice right now is pretty sh*t. How patronising do you have to be?

Where do you get this ****e? All this shows is you made ****ty love choices early on. Deep love is not something you magically earn when you turn 21.

No advice is right or wrong, actually. Using vulgar language doesn't help much either, does it?

Sometimes people need the tough approach. That's what was used on me and guess what? It worked. Maybe instead of people focusing on having the 'perfect relationship' they should focus on themselves and making a good life.

Some of the happiest people I know have never been married or had children, that's independence for you. I never have and never will need to rely on a man to make me feel complete.


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