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Is it shameful to see hookers yes/no?

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Reply 20
Well I dont count foreign women from third world countries as the same as the soulless all powerful spoilt women of the west.

Those foriegners are appreciative of some common courtesy from what I hear, whereas any girl 6 or above in uk is like 'how dare a pathetic peasant like yourself talk to an omnipotent god such as myself'. so that totalitarian mindset i am sure carries across to their hooker exploits such that theyd have a hard time beating it down.

Original post by Howard
I've been with probably half a dozen hookers over the years. Though the last one was years and years ago. It's just business.

As a matter of fact, I'd argue with the OP that hookers don't actually hate the guys that do this. I took one very attractive hooker from El Salvador out for dinner several weeks after our initial "rendevous" We got on very well in a social setting with no money or services exchanging hands at all. She obviously didn't hate me because I'd previously put some money her way to do the dirty or we wouldn't have met socially at a later date.

Of course, I realise this is an anecdote - I don't purport to speak for every hooker in the world!
Reply 21
Original post by Howard
I've been with probably half a dozen hookers over the years. Though the last one was years and years ago. It's just business.

As a matter of fact, I'd argue with the OP that hookers don't actually hate the guys that do this. I took one very attractive hooker from El Salvador out for dinner several weeks after our initial "rendevous" We got on very well in a social setting with no money or services exchanging hands at all. She obviously didn't hate me because I'd previously put some money her way to do the dirty or we wouldn't have met socially at a later date.

Of course, I realise this is an anecdote - I don't purport to speak for every hooker in the world!


u wot m8?

You went on a date with a hooker? They're pretty much all damaged goods though (in more ways than one)
Reply 22
Original post by MAINE.
u wot m8?

You went on a date with a hooker? They're pretty much all damaged goods though (in more ways than one)


Sure. She was a nice girl actually. We are ALL damaged goods!
Original post by i<3milkshake
Is it shameful to see a hooker? Probably.
It is shameful to sit crying all day at home because all you want is a girl to like you but literally none will even consider you? Probably.

My point? Yes, it is shameful to see a hooker. But if you are in the position where you are considering it, make no mistake, you are also in a pretty shameful situation.

Is it shameful to have to pay someone to show affection toward you? Yes. It is shameful to be so undesirable that unless you pay for it you don't get any? Yes.

So see a hooker or don't, the situation is still pretty dire in my view.


How's the Samaritans job going?
Original post by Mankytoes
How's the Samaritans job going?


What?
Reply 25
Lol sarcasm radar malfunction^.
Original post by Harambulus
Lol sarcasm radar malfunction^.


Nice to see you can spot sacrasm but don't see anything wrong with asking members for reccomendations on where to find cheap prostitues. See the first page; you really shouldn't be discussing the prices and places to find prostitutes on a forum.
Lol discussing illegal activity radar malfunction.

(Not just in regards to using prostitues, but also your admittance to taking drugs in another thread).
Original post by Howard
I've been with probably half a dozen hookers over the years. Though the last one was years and years ago. It's just business.

As a matter of fact, I'd argue with the OP that hookers don't actually hate the guys that do this. I took one very attractive hooker from El Salvador out for dinner several weeks after our initial "rendevous" We got on very well in a social setting with no money or services exchanging hands at all. She obviously didn't hate me because I'd previously put some money her way to do the dirty or we wouldn't have met socially at a later date.

Of course, I realise this is an anecdote - I don't purport to speak for every hooker in the world!


Howard Wolowitz is real, I'll be dammed.
I think it depends. If you use hookers because you cant get anywhere without paying for it, thats a little sad
The only reason this shaming phenomenon exists is because people find it outrageous that lesser men are able to access sex without working for it, usually it's only girls or excessively rich or good looking men that have this right. It's not sad at all and id actually say its better than purposefully hunting down easy/drunk girls on nights out with ulterior motives as that's called rape these days.
Original post by Foo.mp3
Bit shameful, not to mention risky and degrading, and more to the point, typically unnecessary. If a guy is going to 'pay for sex' due to having no luck with women then 9 times out of 10 they're better off paying a coach like me (preferably not a PUA) to help them establish quality/lasting connections with decent women :smile:

A friendly reminder;
If your business is in need of customers, no matter how dire the need, then please do not advertise on TSR. This breaches the community rules;
http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/faq.php?faq=rules

Thank you.
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Reply 31
Sex is a bit of a basic human need and if women want to sell this service I guess it can address a
demand. This said prostitution has so many issues of exploitation of vulnerable women and as OP says the arrangement is so poor at meeting the needs of a good sex life - mutual fun, affection - it must leave a pretty hollow feeling on all sides. Oldest trade though it may be I am not sure it's a good thing.
Original post by 4Skin
If wanting to touch women makes you feel creepy then you might have issues sleeping with a prostitute won't resolve. Maybe you're gay, have extreme low self-confidence or are a Muslim?

I was 25. The experience was enjoyable, awkward, and ultimately disappointing (because I had build sex up so much in my mind). It demystified it though, and I was thereafter more confident interacting with women (though still very shy, less with each bang), which ultimately lead to more fulfilling sex.

There's no reason to pay that much unless you're in London or she's a model, but if you can afford that and she's fit then go for it. View it as a just another pleasurable activity and not something that will instantly change your life and you'll be fine.


Not gay, not Muslim, confidence is okay for most other aspects of life but I am deathly terrified of women and my own sexuality.

I'm very good at cockblocking and friendzoning myself plus I see women as being better than I am, like some mystical creatures.

Still unsure about doing it with an escort :s
Original post by i<3milkshake
Howard Wolowitz is real, I'll be dammed.


Howard Wolowitz married Bernadette. Nuff said

Original post by ParadiseFound
The only reason this shaming phenomenon exists is because people find it outrageous that lesser men are able to access sex without working for it, usually it's only girls or excessively rich or good looking men that have this right. It's not sad at all and id actually say its better than purposefully hunting down easy/drunk girls on nights out with ulterior motives as that's called rape these days.


To be fair there is logic to this argument (aside from that BS rape comment) when it comes to going on the pull. You can spend £50 plus from going out, finding a girl, chatting her up, buying her drinks all night, engaging in conversation, paying for a kebab on the way home and she can still get in a taxi and go home at the end and there is nothing you can do. Thats her choice (and yours for deciding to try this in the first place) Or take that £50 find a brothel and get a pretty much guaranteed thing.

Personally i dont pay for sex, i have no real moral qualms about it (providing its a consensual act) but i dont like the idea of sticking my dick in something that can still feel the last dick that was in it, and paying for the privilege to do so. Id also rather have sex with someone who wants to have sex with me rather than someone whose doing because i paid them to do it.
No, because quite frankly I couldn't care less about what other people do with their own sex lives.

2 consenting adults wanna bang? good for them.
Original post by MAINE.
Exactly, sex is just another basic human need like eating or breathing. If anything, just be glad you have the disposable income to afford the luxury.


Good thing your mum gives it out for free fam
Reply 36
Original post by silverbolt
Howard Wolowitz married Bernadette. Nuff said



To be fair there is logic to this argument (aside from that BS rape comment) when it comes to going on the pull. You can spend £50 plus from going out, finding a girl, chatting her up, buying her drinks all night, engaging in conversation, paying for a kebab on the way home and she can still get in a taxi and go home at the end and there is nothing you can do. Thats her choice (and yours for deciding to try this in the first place) Or take that £50 find a brothel and get a pretty much guaranteed thing.

Personally i dont pay for sex, i have no real moral qualms about it (providing its a consensual act) but i dont like the idea of sticking my dick in something that can still feel the last dick that was in it, and paying for the privilege to do so. Id also rather have sex with someone who wants to have sex with me rather than someone whose doing because i paid them to do it.


I never pay for anything for women out of principle for that exact reason. I know a guy who always buys girls drinks and he often comes complaining to me that they just took the drink and he 'didnt get anything'. Girls use the 'excuse' of 'if they will pay they deserve it'. Great morals there. So any chance you have the chance to do something underhanded to f^%£ someone else over you will do it just because? The amazing values that capitalist society imbues.

But in terms of costs there are some necessary overheads to going out to pull mainly cover charge for clubs, thats about it for me since I dont drink, oh and coat check when I really must if its too hot inside and the coat is too big to put around my waist.

Although you may come up empty handed with no garauntee I think its better to think of it in a self development perspective in that learning to pull is a lifeskill and when you can lay a girl from the club, although it often doesnt, it can have he potential to become a decent relationship. Likewise it is blisteringly frustrated to go out night after ngiht to these troughs of inequity with horrible people and sitll not get laid.

One night stands Id prefer they were more than that but one night stands are certianly better than nothing :smile:.

Conversely with paying for sex there is a ceiling effect, your jammed at just being a 'punter'. Though maybe if it lets you blow off steam so you can go about your daily life better in a more mentally healthy manner it may have a place. But I think trying to say it is equal or superior to meeting girls in clubs is missing that most valuable aspects of said social skills which are what its really about rather than just the monetary costs or losses.
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Original post by bassbabe
And if you're in brum, there's a brothel across the road from my college. They do 30mins for £60. Don't ask how I know :redface:


Okay, how do you know?
Original post by Harambulus
I never pay for anything for women out of principle for that exact reason. I know a guy who always buys girls drinks and he often comes complaining to me that they just took the drink and he 'didnt get anything'. Girls use the 'excuse' of 'if they will pay they deserve it'. Great morals there. So any chance you have the chance to do something underhanded to f^%£ someone else over you will do it just because? The amazing values that capitalist society imbues.

But in terms of costs there are some necessary overheads to going out to pull mainly cover charge for clubs, thats about it for me since I dont drink, oh and coat check when I really must if its too hot inside and the coat is too big to put around my waist.

Although you may come up empty handed with no garauntee I think its better to think of it in a self development perspective in that learning to pull is a lifeskill and when you can lay a girl from the club, although it often doesnt, it can have he potential to become a decent relationship. Likewise it is blisteringly frustrated to go out night after ngiht to these troughs of inequity with horrible people and sitll not get laid.

One night stands Id prefer they were more than that but one night stands are certianly better than nothing :smile:.

Conversely with paying for sex there is a ceiling effect, your jammed at just being a 'punter'. Though maybe if it lets you blow off steam so you can go about your daily life better in a more mentally healthy manner it may have a place. But I think trying to say it is equal or superior to meeting girls in clubs is missing that most valuable aspects of said social skills which are what its really about rather than just the monetary costs or losses.


First bolded - because your mate buys them a drink, that does not mean they owe him anything, he chose to put his hand in his pocket in the hope of getting something sexual out of them. And underhanded? Please, whats the more underhanded - buying women alcohol all night in an effort to lower their inhibitions enough for you to get them into bed? Or women knowing exactly what the game is and then playing it by thier own rules?

second bolded - this is very true, it doesnt always equate to a ONS. Ive always found though as i got older that its better to go out and enjoy the night, if you pull you pull, if you dont well you havent lost anything. And if you do go out only to pull it makes it harder as women are not stupid, they know what your up to.

Im not saying its on an equal footing, more going down a different path.
Original post by jay2013
Okay, how do you know?


Just google searched the place, they've got their own website lol

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