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Do you dance with members of the opposite sex when clubbing?

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I clicked on this thread and all I saw was 'daggering'...TSR should really be an R rated site :K:
Original post by JD1lla
Okay! Calm yourself down cutie pie.


It just really grates my skin.
Original post by Sweet n Sour
I've been surprise-daggered like minding my business and the next minute I'm in the air screaming to be saved, and I was just wondering where you went :frown:


Damn :/ I mean that seems like even more aggressive sexual assault than just groping someone without consent.

Daggering sounds like fun though. In the event I end up at one of these parties I wouldn't mind trying it if I had someone to do it with. xD
Original post by JD1lla
Yeah and sweet & sour called me silly for not wanting to dagger!


Seems like she cleared up why she called you silly lol

Also, daggering is something I'd do if I were in an environment where people were doing it. It does look like it'd feel less good than a grind though. But what do I know xD
Original post by JD1lla
I go to dancehall nights where daggering occurs and I just can't bring myself to do it


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vhfVMoDEqMk

Based on this video, I can understand why...It's basically porn lol, I was just watching like da***..:K:
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Original post by liquidconfidence
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vhfVMoDEqMk

Based on this video, I can understand why...It's basically porn lol, I was just watching like da***..:K:


What do the women get out of it? It's not even dancing.
Reply 66
Original post by Danz123
Seems like she cleared up why she called you silly lol

Also, daggering is something I'd do if I were in an environment where people were doing it. It does look like it'd feel less good than a grind though. But what do I know xD


I don't really understand what either party gets out of it. It's not sexy, it looks painful and requires no sense of rhythm. Is it even dancing?
Original post by JD1lla
What do the women get out of it? It's not even dancing.


Exactly, I don't understand the appeal tbh lol
Original post by JD1lla
I don't really understand what either party gets out of it. It's not sexy, it looks painful and requires no sense of rhythm. Is it even dancing?


I would assume since it simulates sex, perhaps that's the pleasure they get from it? Or it's just a fun thing to do, or both I dunno xD
Reply 69
Original post by Danz123
I would assume since it simulates sex, perhaps that's the pleasure they get from it? Or it's just a fun thing to do, or both I dunno xD


Doesn't resemble my sex.
Aye it's fun.
Where I am from, daggering, yiking, grinding, twerking, whining etc are all pretty common place at parties. If someone grabs your waist from behind it's almost an obligation to start shaking ass.
But it's creepy as hell :lolwut: and has put me off parties a bit.
But if it's a friend/or the stranger asks for consent (never the serious stuff) then sure :sexface: it's quite fun :teehee:
(edited 8 years ago)
Reply 72
Original post by StrawbAri
Where I am from, daggering, yiking, grinding, twerking, whining etc are all pretty common place at parties. If someone grabs your waist from behind it's almost an obligation to start shaking ass.
But it's creepy as hell :lolwut: and has put me off parties a bit.
But if it's a friend/or the stranger asks for consent then sure :sexface: it's quite fun :teehee:


Filth
Original post by JD1lla
Filth


:colonhash: what?
It's a different culture anyway. Wouldn't expect most others to understand :hmmm:
Reply 74
Original post by StrawbAri
:colonhash: what?
It's a different culture anyway. Wouldn't expect most others to understand :hmmm:


Where are you from? You yourself admitted it's creepy?
Original post by JD1lla
Where are you from? You yourself admitted it's creepy?


Africa . And it is when they don't ask (which happens a lot).
Plus daggering/yiking here isn't as 'pornographic' as with the carribeans but it's their culture so can't judge
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Original post by thecatwithnohat
Yes

I think we only advance if we can lip sync to a song together or we accidentally bump into each other and then just dance together in an "oops, might as well" sort of fashion :rofl:

Don't see the point of going clubbing and just sticking with friends tbh


Wouldn't it be a bit unsafe to not stick with friends in that environment?
Original post by Danz123
Damn :/ I mean that seems like even more aggressive sexual assault than just groping someone without consent.

Daggering sounds like fun though. In the event I end up at one of these parties I wouldn't mind trying it if I had someone to do it with. xD


I don't like when it's a random dude or feel people to think it's a standard way to dance with someone, but if I like him sure.

Original post by JD1lla
I don't really understand what either party gets out of it. It's not sexy, it looks painful and requires no sense of rhythm. Is it even dancing?


This conversation has taken a rather annoyingly nasty turn.
If you don't like it don't go.
Original post by Sweet n Sour
I don't like when it's a random dude or feel people to think it's a standard way to dance with someone, but if I like him sure.


Yeah exactly, if I like the girl then sure, sounds like fun.

Also, I haven't gone anywhere, you didn't see my last message guurrlll. lol :tongue:
Original post by Danz123
Yeah exactly, if I like the girl then sure, sounds like fun.

Also, I haven't gone anywhere, you didn't see my last message guurrlll. lol :tongue:


omg. don't tell me. don't tell me don't tell me don't tell me
that I pressed preview message and thought I had sent it
and clicked out

:argh:

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