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what do boys want?

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It depends, lots of boys just want sex but for boys looking for actual relationships they just want companionship and friendship like they do with their mates. Just with sex.

Ah, greetings, my lord Kitchener!

Reply 81

Lord Kitchener

Original post by Ser Alex Toyne

Ah, greetings, my lord Kitchener!

Hello my friend of the brotherhood.

Reply 82

TheCitizenAct

You don't know what you want until you find it. Even when you have what you want, you invariably won't want it - you'll find something wrong with it. Want is your problem; it conflicts with your reality. Your imagination comes into direct conflict with what reality is willing to hand you.

You want someone who is 'nice.' What's nice? Do they have to be nice all the time? Wouldn't that get boring? Are you sure that's what you want? Or do you just want 'nice' sex? What's nice sex? To some women that's rough sex, to other women that slow, compassionate sex. Or do you want someone to 'treat you nicely'? What does that mean? Five red roses every Friday? Perhaps they should spend all of their time telling you what you want to hear, rather than the truth? The truth hurts, it's not nice - but you want nice? Is nice really in your best interest?

In gist, a prospective life partner isn't a list of features and benefits. Nor does want accurately reflect need. What you need can vary from one year to the next, and relationships are predicated on 'need', not love.

Reply 83

Ethereal21foreva

Original post by william walker

All the homosexuals are liking my comment that guys can do blow job also. :colondollar:

Oh my days. :O :O

Reply 84

BestBehaviour

It's like Robin Thicke, I always wanted a good girl.

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Le girl talking...I think what our heart chooses is the perfect man/woman for us. <3 Even if they don't meet that required qualities we search for in a partner (good looking, caring, funny, educated, compatible, independent, loyal and so on), we tend to love those other qualities you didn't think we would like.

Reply 87

Zechs

Original post by Emily.97

My comment wasn't targeting extreme behaviours like that. If someone was being abused then they should leave the relationship for their own safety.

You sure?

Reply 88

Illiberal Liberal

Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes

Ech erm...why are you still looking? You have a fiancé :rolleyes:

@Anon_98 what is going onnn? I thought we had the venue picked and everything...

Original post by Anon_98

Yes, we did. I've absolutely no idea..um...hold on. O_o

:slap:

That should do it. :h:

I just said that (in life) I want happiness, I didn't say that I'm not at a good level of happiness at this moment :wink:

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Reply 89

TheonlyMrsHolmes

Original post by Anon_98

Yes, we did. I've absolutely no idea..um...hold on. O_o

:slap:

That should do it. :h:

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I can't rep you :frown:

but that was hilarious!! :tongue:

Thankyou

Reply 90

TheonlyMrsHolmes

Original post by Illiberal Liberal

I just said that (in life) I want happiness, I didn't say that I'm not at a good level of happiness at this moment :wink:

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...well I have already found my maid of honour dress, so no turning back now :tongue:

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Reply 91

Illiberal Liberal

Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes

...well I have already found my maid of honour dress, so no turning back now :tongue:

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Why would I turn back from what will be the proudest and happiest moment of my life? :wink:

Reply 92

TheonlyMrsHolmes

Original post by Illiberal Liberal

Why would I turn back from what will be the proudest and happiest moment of my life? :wink:

Hehehe

@drowzee as your BFFL I am telling you, he is a keeper :wink2:

Reply 93

Illiberal Liberal

Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes

Hehehe

@drowzee as your BFFL I am telling you, he is a keeper :wink2:

I have your seal of approval, thank you :woo:

I'm sure you'll be keeping me on my toes and making sure that if I ever do anything wrong I'll have you to answer to :wink:

Reply 94

drowzee

Original post by Illiberal Liberal

I just said that (in life) I want happiness, I didn't say that I'm not at a good level of happiness at this moment :wink:

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Original post by Illiberal Liberal

Why would I turn back from what will be the proudest and happiest moment of my life? :wink:

You're too sweet. :love:

Reply 95

Indeterminate

Can't ask for anything more than someone who's as nice on the inside as they are on the outside :h:

Reply 96

Anonymous #1

this isnt why i made this thread but lol ok

Reply 97

IFoundWonderland

Original post by Inexorably

I would like someone who:

- Loves pizza
- Likes the sims 2 over the sims 3
- Likes dogs more than cats

And that's it :}}

Prsom

Original post by Thickfreakness

I meant to say that needing to spend lots of time together is a huge, major turn off. Needing to spend lots of time together isn't an intrinsic part of a relationship, unless you're married. A woman should be independent, I'd expect her to have family commitment, work/study commitments, domestic duties, etc. I'd expect her to spend time with her friends, spend time engaging in hobbies, things like that. That's what being independent means. The relationship is just a small part of her life, she doesn't need a man to make her happy. She has a balanced life and is satisfied with spending just a little bit of time with her partner (eg a few hours at the end of the week, couple of texts a week, perhaps a phone call every other week). She doesn't need to talk to or see her man every day because she has duties and commitments and she understands that her man has duties and commitments. There's no other quality in a woman that's as attractive as being independent and having a balanced life. I need my personal space and I need my own time, so I'd expect the woman to understand that and to be independent.

You bang on about independence, but don't want a woman with opinions different to yours; non-argumentative suggests you at least wouldn't want her to express these. Also: sex multiple times a day with a couple of days to"recharge", but only want to spend a few hours at the end of the week with her .. idgi?

Original post by william walker

Do you know any?

Do you go to church?