Dear all,
I had been messaging a girl I'd met on Tinder for a few weeks now, and we'd arranged to possibly meet up sometime this week for a coffee.
On Sunday night, she messaged me stating that she had been busy all weekend and had been unable to message me. I replied with:
'Aw okay. Did you have fun? And nothing much really, it's been quite a boring weekend to be fair haha. But yeah I think it'd be good to meet up sometime and I know somewhere nice where we could meet if you like?Half an hour later, I send a further message:
Out of interest, where did you go for the birthday night out? And as I say, working on my book over the weekend as usual Since then, I have had no response whatsoever from her and have noticed that she hasn't been on Tinder for quite sometime. After I sent the message, she was active for a bit and then was inactive for two or three days, before becoming active again. Still, she hasn't replied.
Yesterday at about 8 pm, I sent her a message on Facebook, just asking how she was as I had notice she had been off Tinder for quite sometime. She read the message almost immediately, but did not response.
I am obviously confused as prior to this she seemed very enthusiastic about meeting up and getting to know me. Now, I don't know what to think and I would appreciate any advice anybody can offer. I have been thinking about possibly waiting a couple of weeks and sending another message.