Hey,
Just wondering if anybody could possibly think of any genius ways to help me out.
My boyfriend has recently stopped letting me give him oral - well it's been a couple of months nearly now - and it's definitely not because he doesn't enjoy getting it.
No, this one loves getting oral and always loved it when I gave it him, but because I didn't give him enough blowjobs off my own back he has gotten this idea into his head that I don't like doing it. Now that isn't true at all because I love doing it and always said yes when he asked other than about three times in the whole relationship because of different reasons - usually because I was pissed off with him for something.
He's insecure - and he will admit that - and he has also gotten the idea into his head about me doing more with my exes because of some daft comment I made when we first met and before we even started going out. The truth is though I haven't done more with my exes at all.
So recently he's managed to work himself up so much about all this that he point blank flat out refuses to let me give him oral even when I come on to him to do it. I've tried talking to him about it, apologising for making him feel like I didn't enjoy it, I've tried telling him that he's wrong about the ex thing, tried spontaneously doing it, hell it's even got to the point where i'm on the floor trying to drag his pants down... if I could pin him down and do it I would but he's a frickin bodybuilder so no chance.
Anyway he basically tells me that he misses it physically but he can't let me do it because 'it will make him feel too uncomfortable'. I've tried telling him that if he starts allowing me to do it again he might feel uncomfortable at first but I'll do everything I can to make him forget that and eventually he'll be ok. No joy. He's even gone so far as to say 'my dick is never going near your mouth again'.
I'm good at blowjobs and I miss giving them to him! Help!!