He wants to go on a stag weekend

He doesn't seem like a very good boyfriend if he rather spend money on going to a strip club and getting wasted than going out with his girlfriend to a hotel or on holiday. Another red flag is the getting aggressive whilst being drunk? That doesn't sound fun.

Break up with him before its too late. O.O

On the one hand a stag do is as important to most guys as a wedding dress is to most women. It's a right of passage and if his friend wants him there then I think its unreasonable to suggest that he has to go on holiday with you over an important event for his friend.

Regarding the drugs, if he wants to do them and you have a clear stance he disagrees with then it doesnt sound to me like you're right together anyway.

Strip clubs and having a few beers are both harmless providing the bloke isnt a dickhead to start with.
I'm fortunate that my wife is an adult and realises this, likewise if she wanted to go to a male strip show on a hen party I wouldnt mind either.

From what you have described your boyfriend has no money, likes being violent (drink exaggerates personalities), enjoys drugs though you hate them and if made to make the choice (whether you should make him choose or not is another question) he picks his mates over you.
He sounds like a right catch lol

He's gonna go away, get royally ****ed up, snort coke off a stripper's thighs and come home being shifty because he's done some other things he feels guilty about. Do with that info what you will.

He's in a relationship so going to see strippers is totally unacceptable

You were right on every other point but this one.
In a healthy and trusting relationship there is no harm whatsoever in strip clubs or full monty style shows or anything like that providing it's in a social context.

No it's not.


Lots of people do it which normalises it, but that doesn't make it ok. Going to see women dancing naked when you have a wife/girlfriend is not ok, paying for that makes you a walking joke.

As I said above it's a mutual agreement in a trusting adult relationship.
We're not in Saudi and if my other half wants to go to a show with the girls and see some men have a dance then I have no problem with that.

Paying money for it is a moot point, you're paying for the entertainment and not for sexual gratification. Ever bought gone to a movie with friends? Same thing.

I have no envy of your relationship

We've been together nearly 10 years and we have been happy throughout.

Forgive me if I don't rush to change a working formula for your approval.

I'm sure you're very happy in the strip club knowing your girlfriend is sucking off Magic Mike

Bless. Your assumption that women shouldn't be trusted must stem from somewhere.
I bet your mother was a right slut.