I hate being in Love when... ARGHHHH i want to avoid her

I have feelings for this girl in the 2nd year (I'm first year) and i am doing my best to come out of love.

She has friendzoned me and i have realised she has most male friends. The truth is i have depression and i would really rather live in solitude because i have given up in trying to be social (I thought university was going to end the social anxiety but instead has made it worse).

I'm reaching breaking point, she has spoken (abeit i sense she is emotionally unstable) of the strongest friendzone quotes i have heard.

Quotes from her:
'i'm trying to get close to you'
'I'm trying to be your friend, but your not letting me'
'Please come to my society, please'
'I'm here to listen, come to me'

Like **** this, i want more than this. I hinted today (but indirectly) when talking about our uncertainity friendship (she keeps thinking i hate her or something) and i said it out embarassingly on the bus today 'I DO LIKE YOU' . I could tell people on the bus where thinking 'he's sooo friendzoned'

I want to avoid her at all cost but its so difficult. I feel upset because of my social awkwardness and she is in another league to me. Guys help me.

i know how this feels, separation from her will probably be the easiest way to move on but before that tell her how you feel as there is nothing to lose anyway & still socialise and go and meet new people that will help

I have feelings for this girl in the 2nd year (I'm first year) and i am doing my best to come out of love.

She has friendzoned me and i have realised she has most male friends. The truth is i have depression and i would really rather live in solitude because i have given up in trying to be social (I thought university was going to end the social anxiety but instead has made it worse).

I'm reaching breaking point, she has spoken (abeit i sense she is emotionally unstable) of the strongest friendzone quotes i have heard.

Quotes from her:
'i'm trying to get close to you'
'I'm trying to be your friend, but your not letting me'
'Please come to my society, please'
'I'm here to listen, come to me'

Like **** this, i want more than this. I hinted today (but indirectly) when talking about our uncertainity friendship (she keeps thinking i hate her or something) and i said it out embarassingly on the bus today 'I DO LIKE YOU' . I could tell people on the bus where thinking 'he's sooo friendzoned'

I want to avoid her at all cost but its so difficult. I feel upset because of my social awkwardness and she is in another league to me. Guys help me.

To best honest you aren't in love with her and you don't have "feelings" for her. If you did when she asks you to let her in and let her help you then you would do it. Rather you are trying to bypass this and make the relationship something that it isn't (can you explain this more in detail). What you should do is continue being her friend and allow her to help you. Allow your feelings and love for her to grow as she is there for you and allows you to open up and doesn't hurt you.

**** the people on the bus bro, they ain't real

All I can say is I know how you feel. Its hurts knowing you're in love with someone who's heart belongs to someone else.

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Block them out from your life. You're really infatuated with them and so it's not good for you to have any contact with them.

I'm trying to but i keep seeing her everywhere in the uni. I saw her twice yesterday (second time i was drunk anyway) but i don't want to play hide and seek with her.

As i said, she herself seems i think 'she bothers me' whereas truth is i can't express my feelings for her. The truth is im scared of rejection hence why i want to avoid her. I just honestly hate being in love.

Aww OP Being her friend might work but right now as you are madly in love, you just have to let go. Keep at distant from her for a while and once you have calmed down, try to be her friend (maybe). But I definitely suggest distance, otherwise you probably wont ever get over her.

Hmm...you can and literally avoid her when you see her. For example, if you see on the streets, you can swerve to another direction or go the opposite way.

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