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Guys: do you keep nudes?

Say a girl you've had a long history with asked you to delete all the nudes she's ever sent you, even though they were all sent willingly. Obviously sharing them and the like is out of the question, but from the moment you recieve them, they're your pics, your property. Do you agree to delete them, or keep them for your own memories? Looking elsewhere, opinion seems to be divided:

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2d6x2a/do_you_feel_its_okay_to_keep_nudes_after_the/

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Reply 1
...or keep them for your own memories?


Especially when said memories happen to make up a significant portion of your life.
Just don't take them in the first place ...
If you were in the opposite situation and you ask her to delete yours, would she? If yes then you should delete them, if not then they're yours
Personally I would never ask anyone for nudes, and if I was sent any unsolicited, I'd delete them on the spot.
Original post by anosmianAcrimony
Personally I would never ask anyone for nudes, and if I was sent any unsolicited, I'd delete them on the spot.


Its extremely awkward when say, someone sends you nudes, and they end up as a nurse at the local hospital (when your field is one which involves hospitals).
I delete them:h:
Or just use snapchat:wink:
Guys: do you keep your nudes?
Girls: do you like chocolate?
Children:do you like sweets?

All the same questions really.
(edited 8 years ago)
I've asked past boyfriends to delete nudes of me and many would say they have, as if I don't know pics deleted from their photo album go to their 'deleted' photos album :colonhash:
Original post by Trevormacdonald
Guys: do you keep your nudes?
Girls: do you like chocalate?
Children:do yiu like sweets?

All the same questions really.


no.
(edited 8 years ago)
Reply 10
Original post by Anonymous
Say a girl you've had a long history with asked you to delete all the nudes she's ever sent you, even though they were all sent willingly. Obviously sharing them and the like is out of the question, but from the moment you recieve them, they're your pics, your property. Do you agree to delete them, or keep them for your own memories?


Delete
Reply 11
Original post by Anonymous
Say a girl you've had a long history with asked you to delete all the nudes she's ever sent you, even though they were all sent willingly. Obviously sharing them and the like is out of the question, but from the moment you recieve them, they're your pics, your property. Do you agree to delete them, or keep them for your own memories? Looking elsewhere, opinion seems to be divided:

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2d6x2a/do_you_feel_its_okay_to_keep_nudes_after_the/


For what reason would you keep it apart from that from which you mentioned (which you could also remember the pic)? If you want to keep it just because its a 'nude', you may as well download nude pics off porn sites or google.

I'd personally not really keep nudes as I don't see no point in keeping one. It would make me feel like some sex deprived teenage boy :unimpressed:
yes :innocent:

oh, if she asked to delete them then obvs i would... :lol:
ive had nudes (and better than nudes plus videos) from my last three partners. Each time the relationships ended ive deleted them after awhile. Just doesnt seem right holding onto them
Respect her wishes and delete them, I'm sure if she was that important to you you can remember her with memories rather than pictures of her naked body
Original post by Reue
Delete


You're a guy?

Original post by kkboyk
For what reason would you keep it apart from that from which you mentioned (which you could also remember the pic)? If you want to keep it just because its a 'nude', you may as well download nude pics off porn sites or google.

I'd personally not really keep nudes as I don't see no point in keeping one. It would make me feel like some sex deprived teenage boy :unimpressed:


:curious: For the reason mentioned, which is a sentimental one. I'm not sure what you mean about "remembering the pic", but it sounds stupid, and so's your last point.
(edited 8 years ago)
Original post by silverbolt
ive had nudes (and better than nudes plus videos) from my last three partners. Each time the relationships ended ive deleted them after awhile. Just doesnt seem right holding onto them


How long is a while? I obviously intend to delete them at some point, but in my own time. Would you have deleted them before you did if she asked you?
Why ask on tsr???
This is non nude land the boys here are like nude repellents
Original post by RonnieRJ
Why ask on tsr???
This is non nude land the boys here are like nude repellents


:laugh: Just convenient, couldn't think of a better place to ask tbh
Original post by toonervoustotalk
I delete them:h:
Or just use snapchat:wink:


Nah I accidentally put one as my snapchat story. Luckily I just missed my chest in the photo and deleted it straight away fmL :getmecoat:

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