Okay so I've had this thing with a guy for about 3/4 months, we're not in a relationship but you could say we've ended up becoming exclusive (very recently about 2 weeks). Every time there's a party or our friendship group has a party we end up hooking up. (this has happened about 10 times) and we've also gone second base (him to me)
(I'm 19 and started uni in scotland and I know him from uni so I see him all the time) I'm a virgin and he's definitely not, he's had quite a lot of experience in that area. However it's kind have got to the point where I want to have sex with him.. However, the guy I'm interested in has also been interested in me for some time, but what I'm worried about is if I do have sex with him he might because to lose interest? idk... Because the whole process has been dragged out quite a bit as we havent done much in that period of time.. Just a little part of me thinks that he might lose interest if we start having sex.. Because for a lot of guys it's all about the chase..
Also I'm wondering for you guys how long into a relationship would you want to start having sex with them? I know its very different for different people but how long would you say (for my situation of any general one)
Also how long would it take for you to start getting a bit restless/bored?