Say your boyfriend or husband is walking with his arm around you (surely thats an indication you are together) and some idiot says to you "you alright sexy"?.. Is violence justified?
Say your boyfriend or husband is walking with his arm around you (surely thats an indication you are together) and some idiot says to you "you alright sexy"?.. Is violence justified?
As the boyfriend in this situation (yes, this happened to me) I just laughed it off...
I could never get violent unless the other person initiated.
Surely the fact that you've lowered yourself to physical retaliation damages your honour more than an off-hand comment by a stranger?
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& I answered OP to say its justified (imo) if it gets to the point of violence.
I wouldn't get into a fist fight right off the bat, believe it or not I'm against violence lol, but yeah - would probably make a comment myself and then the ball is in his court.
& I answered OP to say its justified (imo) if it gets to the point of violence.
I wouldn't get into a fist fight right off the bat, believe it or not I'm against violence lol, but yeah - would probably make a comment myself and then the ball is in his court.
Whoops sorry I thought I did :') tbh I'd like him more if acted like the comment was about him or made it into a joke and said something like "threesome at ours yeah?"
Whoops sorry I thought I did :' tbh I'd like him more if acted like the comment was about him or made it into a joke and said something like "threesome at ours yeah?"
lolol fair enough. Probably a societal difference, I can imagine some complete mugs doing this in my home town so it would irk me.
Whoops sorry I thought I did :' tbh I'd like him more if acted like the comment was about him or made it into a joke and said something like "threesome at ours yeah?"
Most boyfriends wouldn't risk that, I don't think. Not every girl would appreciate that.
Say your boyfriend or husband is walking with his arm around you (surely thats an indication you are together) and some idiot says to you "you alright sexy"?.. Is violence justified?
Meh, surely it's better to say.. just leave it. Carry on as normal. Dont let someone ruin your day?
Most boyfriends wouldn't risk that, I don't think. Not every girl would appreciate that.
Personally, I would find it more attractive if he took the piss rather than getting defensive over it, but I know that some girls would rather feel protected by their man. I get why people wouldn't want to risk it though, there are a lot of creeps out there
Whoops sorry I thought I did :' tbh I'd like him more if acted like the comment was about him or made it into a joke and said something like "threesome at ours yeah?"
And then when he says "yeah" you say "Great Bruce and Hugo will be around at 8. Is that OK?"