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Girl likes me... what do I do?

I got into a conversation with a girl at my college... she told me I was "very cute" and then gave me her number 😏

We've spoken via text since and she's been really flirty! I don't know her really, but she seems so nice!

How should I progress.. I'd like to get to know her better. I don't know what to do/say next!

Thanks :smile:

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Reply 1

TheFarmerLad

Ask her out on a date, then go back to hers and pull your pants down

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Reply 2

username1793709

Original post by MathsAstronomy12

Ask her out on a date, then go back to hers and pull your pants down

Hahaha 😂

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Reply 3

koolkat77

Original post by MathsAstronomy12

Ask her out on a date, then go back to hers and pull your pants down

Lol

Reply 4

Kevin De Bruyne

"You. Me. Starbucks. 5pm. Caramel Frappuccinos."

Reply 5

The Blue Axolotl

Next time she texts ask her out.

Reply 6

username1793709

Original post by The Blue Axolotl

Next time she texts ask her out.

Would it be better to ask her out in person? I hardly see her round college is the problem..

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Reply 7

Anonymous #1

ask her out either way that you prefer or ask to meet up then ask her out up to you

Reply 8

The Blue Axolotl

Original post by Porcupayne

Would it be better to ask her out in person? I hardly see her round college is the problem..

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No, what I mean is if she contacts you you should assume she wants to see you / hang out.

If she rejects you or doesn't give you another time/day, you should move on.

Asking her out in person is definitely a lot better, but if you don't see her often, this comes in handy.

Reply 9

username1793709

Original post by The Blue Axolotl

Hey thanks! She wants to meet with me on Friday now. If it goes well I might ask her out.

Thank you for the advice :smile:

Reply 10

The Blue Axolotl

Original post by Porcupayne

Hey thanks! She wants to meet with me on Friday now. If it goes well I might ask her out.

Thank you for the advice :smile:

She wants to meet you on Friday? For what? Drinks?

Reply 11

username1793709

Original post by The Blue Axolotl

She wants to meet you on Friday? For what? Drinks?

Just for lunch at college.. it's not a date or anything O.o aha

Reply 12

angelcake123

Original post by Porcupayne

Just for lunch at college.. it's not a date or anything O.o aha

Aww that is so cute :smile:

Reply 13

The Blue Axolotl

Original post by Porcupayne

Just for lunch at college.. it's not a date or anything O.o aha

Hmm, did she explicitly say it's "not a date"? Is she bringing people to it as well?

You could've said that you were busy then but could do later in the evening!

Reply 14

username1793709

Original post by The Blue Axolotl

Hmm, did she explicitly say it's "not a date"? Is she bringing people to it as well?

You could've said that you were busy then but could do later in the evening!

No she didn't aha. I said we should hang out more.. she responded with "yeah you're really cute. We should meet over lunch".

She keeps calling cute.. I'd assume this means she likes me?? Aha

Reply 15

The Blue Axolotl

Original post by Porcupayne

No she didn't aha. I said we should hang out more.. she responded with "yeah you're really cute. We should meet over lunch".

She keeps calling cute.. I'd assume this means she likes me?? Aha

Dude, it should be clear as crystal...

Take the reins!

I would usually recommend a date in the evening, as that can easily lead to drinks and more fun (possibly).

The next time she texts you make sure you ask her out in the evening. Take her bowling or iceskatting - NOT THE CINEMA OR A RESTAURANT.

Reply 16

pereira325

Gee, what's with everyone and their sexual thoughts :tongue:

You are lucky! You like her, and she likes you.
If you would like for relations to progress, perhaps become her boyfriend, you need to spend more time with her, in person. The more you meet up and get to know eachother better, the stronger your bond, and the more you should like eachother. The rest is obvious.