"I don't want to be with you now"

Girls, when you tell a guy "I don't want to be with you now, if we were to get together it would be in the future" what do you really mean?

Scroll to see replies

Reply 1

Savage R3N3GAD3

[scroll] it's okay, it just means they don't want you, they're not interested in you, it's okay [/scroll]

Reply 2

samina_ay

aka lemme be a hoe for a while, i'll holla u after i'm done being a hoe.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Baring in mind, this is my ex girlfriend that's said this to me after telling me that she's no longer in love with me.

Reply 4

kantdothis

Original post by Anonymous

Baring in mind, this is my ex girlfriend that's said this to me after telling me that she's no longer in love with me.

She's using you as a back-up plan while she looks for something better in the meantime. Sorry.

Reply 5

Wolfegirl98

If I said that to guy hmmmm.. it would probably mean I'm interested in someone and if they don't show interest in me over the next few months I will come back to you hahaha

Reply 6

Kevin De Bruyne

Original post by Anonymous

Baring in mind, this is my ex girlfriend that's said this to me after telling me that she's no longer in love with me.

Cut off contact with her. It's not fair for you to be left hanging on a 'maybe', even if you want to be just to get that chance.

Spoiler

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 7

troubadour.

It's called UCAS Adjustment. If she exceeds her firm offer (made by you, OP), she'll look for something better while still holding onto the firm offer just in case she doesn't find anything.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

So basically; y'all telling me to move on.

Reply 9

Goaded

She isn't serious about you. Move onnn

Reply 10

Retired_Messiah

Original post by Anonymous

Baring in mind, this is my ex girlfriend that's said this to me after telling me that she's no longer in love with me.

Sounds like they're talking out their arse then.

Reply 11

username2223345

She's putting you down lightly, sorry.

Reply 12

kdawg_22

Original post by Anonymous

Girls, when you tell a guy "I don't want to be with you now, if we were to get together it would be in the future" what do you really mean?

Maybe she isn't ready for a commitment right now, but sees you as a long-term kind of partner and wants you as a back up?

Reply 13

Andy98

You know those clothes you'll only wear if there's nothing left?

You're the clothes....

Reply 14

Little Popcorns

Original post by samina_ay

aka lemme be a hoe for a while, i'll holla u after i'm done being a hoe.

bich you just betrayed a sista...

Reply 15

samina_ay

Original post by Little Popcorns

bich you just betrayed a sista...

i know

Reply 16

Little Popcorns

Original post by samina_ay

i know

shameless

Reply 17

ubisoft

Original post by Hydeman

It's called UCAS Adjustment. If she exceeds her firm offer (made by you, OP), she'll look for something better while still holding onto the firm offer just in case she doesn't find anything.

This. OP you might have to go to clearing.

Reply 18

the rad daddy

It means she wants to ride copious amounts of dick before marrying your beta ass and having you raise Chad's bioligical offspring like the worthless cuck you are