I've seen so many people who are unhappy with their marriages. I'm expected to marry after a few years but i'm becoming so cynical about the whole thing. Don't get me wrong, i'd love a partner /companion but when i look around all i see is failed marriages. Single mums. A bunch of kids. And no father. And it's scary that tomorrow that could be me.
Why are there so many failed marriages? You see two people who've fallen deeply in love, get married eventually and three or four years down the line they're either divorced. Seperated. Or can't stand the sight of each other. The "spark" has gone. After the honeymoon period, and after the woman has kids it seems everything just goes downhill from there.
There's too much **** that comes along with marriages. It could be that you end up having devil in laws who make your life a living nightmare. Being expected to cook/ clean etc all the time and take care of your "husband" like he's some newborn baby and putting your career/education on standstill. Years of education to get that ideal job thrown out of the window because let's face it. When you have a child you can't have a full time career at the same time. You need to spend time with your children so you end up working part time and eventually you stop working. Because kids are a full time job.
It just seems like stress piled on stress piled on more stress. I might consider having a single life forever. As much as i want a companion. Is it really worth the risk?