I don't think I can cope in uni, despite going to uni feeling very optimistic . I kind of felt pressured by my teachers and parents to go, despite warning signs implying that I should not i.e crippling social anxiety, slipping academic performance, horrific social retardation from being isolated and having no friends and general lack of motivation. I'm becoming a last minute person, when I was in secondary I always got really good marks in course work because I always finshed my essays 2 weeks before the due date. I feel this was only possible because I wanted my teacher to leave me alone and they geniunely believed in me.
I was already really depressed due to aforemention social anxiety and isolation, but now in university its even worse. Atleast in secondary school I had acquaintances I could have a laugh with ever now and then. Now I'm completely alone. I've never been around people who are are so confident and well spoken with good self-esteem, its incredibly intimidating and I feel so pathetic in their presence. Its so difficult to try and make friends because I have the mentality of a 12 year old in comparison to all the people in my course. When we have to speak in groups in seminars, they all ignore me and treat me like I don't exist and its so difficult to get a word in. I don't even bother with seminars any more because of this. Theres pretty much no activity for me that doesn't involve partying and sports, two things I despise, that would help me meet people. But even if i meet someone I like, I can't talk to them.
I want to quit uni to take time to improve myself mentally and find motivation for life again, but I'm so scared my parents will think I'm a failure and get angry at me. I don't want to be a failure. University feels like the worst decision i've ever made in my life, but I have no plan B.
Sorry for the wall of text, I just wanted to speak ny mind and hopefully hear some opinions and advice.