Recently ive been feeling quite useless. I dont know when it started or how, but right now i cant see a future for myself. At a push from my lecturer, i went to see a doctor, after which i was diagnosed with depression and now am seeing someone at university about it.
The thing is i dont feel like they can help. I dont know why, but i go into every session thinking ,"what on earth am i going to tell her today".
Its obvious to me what my problem is, that i am failing university. Its not the difficulty of the course thats the problem, more that i find it impossible to learn/ copy notes in lectures and even more impossible to sit down on my own to learn.
Unfortunately ive also gone through the whole list of life issues which ive brushed under the carpet thinking, 'oh well, first ill do well in my education/career then ill focus on everything else". So in a sense i used doing well at school as a pillar supporting my self-belief and im not doing well anymore.(issues include bullying,low self confidence,anxiety, constant house moving, family issues, ocd, inability to make friends/speak to other gender,overweight)
Im at university in my fourth year doing mathematics and computer science with one more to go. I've done a placement year where i was living under the roof of a broken family and i hated work, that might have made things worse. i used to be good at maths before, since uk year 2, as far as i can remember, but now i struggle, computer science i have just picked up at university.
In my previous years of university i used fear of failure to motivate my studies, and basically ive been skimming through this way, but now i simply feel like ive failed and that no longer works. I find myself now just accepting i cant do coursework and hence have stopped submitting. I have less than 15 days to my first end of semester exam but i simply cant seem to care enough to even wake up earlier than 2pm even if i go to bed early.
In my head i see myself as very worthless and i know if i dont sort this, ill fail my degree, waste my life, let parents down etc. This feeling extends to further than just education, in everyday life if i fail to know something or fail to complete a task, i tell myself " well you cant even do that, why are you wasting oxygen and food" ( also i dont know if this is the depression, but that voice in my head is brutal and abusive when im at my lowest, i find myself crying for hours every other day)