I hate modern terms where people claim to be attracted to whomever but what it is.
I recently turned 30, lost my virginity a week before my 19th to another girl, mostly because I am shy I met her online, she was 39 and the best sex I have had, as they say mind blowing.
After that had a few quickies with girls I met online who made excuses after I went down on them whilst I was still fully clothed or in underwear, had my first straight sex at 21 which was nice but didn't really do much for me, I did like it and dated the guy for a few months but he was immature, only orgasmed once with him after a booty call a few weeks after we broke up as I was a little confident and controlled him, even he said it was the best sex we had.
Wasn't until I was 25 I had another sexual experience, yes I went over 3 years without sex due to depression, met another older girl online and was the worst experience of my life, she forced me onto her and did nothing to my body bar shove a toy in which hurt.
Since then went without sex till last year, again meeting girls online, first was older and whilst plain was a natural pretty woman with a amazing personality, then another girl who only wanted satisfaction for herself.
Then slept with a guy twice, both guys just treated like get the job done and no more.
Its hard to tell if its sex with guys I don't like, or just these guys in particular.
Sorry strange thread, just rying to work things out, guys do something for me but I always find the sex disapointing if doing it whereas with women its nice but somethings missing.