Girlfriend has done actual mainstream porn when younger, shocked by it.
I found out she did actual porn,and at least twice, once lesbian once straight.
Some guys may think wow but I don't know how to feel, I like sex to be personal and I wouldn't care if she had multiple sexual partners in past but porn to me is different as its available for people to see.
But part of me doesn't know what t think as she did so after her mum died so she may of been in a emotional state, as I have met her she suffers from depression.
Part of me says she did it as she was lonely/upset, part of me is saying that is still a little shocking.
How would you feel?
Some guys may think wow but I don't know how to feel, I like sex to be personal and I wouldn't care if she had multiple sexual partners in past but porn to me is different as its available for people to see.
But part of me doesn't know what t think as she did so after her mum died so she may of been in a emotional state, as I have met her she suffers from depression.
Part of me says she did it as she was lonely/upset, part of me is saying that is still a little shocking.
How would you feel?
I think it is an effect of her mothers death, specially if she went through depression, she might be emotionally messed up and needs a little attention. Just like some people go to bars get drunk and have sex and somehow pain goes away, its still as bad as a p*rn video. Anyways, its ur right to be shocked, and i would probably feel the same, but i would consider what she went through in the past, and i would confront her about it not to do it again.
Original post by Anonymous
I found out she did actual porn,and at least twice, once lesbian once straight.
Some guys may think wow but I don't know how to feel, I like sex to be personal and I wouldn't care if she had multiple sexual partners in past but porn to me is different as its available for people to see.
But part of me doesn't know what t think as she did so after her mum died so she may of been in a emotional state, as I have met her she suffers from depression.
Part of me says she did it as she was lonely/upset, part of me is saying that is still a little shocking.
How would you feel?
Some guys may think wow but I don't know how to feel, I like sex to be personal and I wouldn't care if she had multiple sexual partners in past but porn to me is different as its available for people to see.
But part of me doesn't know what t think as she did so after her mum died so she may of been in a emotional state, as I have met her she suffers from depression.
Part of me says she did it as she was lonely/upset, part of me is saying that is still a little shocking.
How would you feel?
Well one thing - a girl who's not a slut but did porn a couple times as she needed money, is much better than dating a girl who's not done porn but been with loads of guys.
Assuming your gf's hetero, or at least mostly hetero, I'd say the lesbian porn is not a big deal at all, and then with the straight porn it was only one time, so it's forgivable I guess - and as you mentione, likely driven by what she was going through at the time.
If she had been a fully fledged pornstar I would be giving you different advice, but tbh I think what she has done is really just a small thing that can remain in the past.
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Original post by moggis
I must say it's very disconcerting to find that these young women I'm masturbating over are apparently grieving for their mothers and or depressed.
Thought they were just either desperate for cash or horny.
Disappointing.
Thought they were just either desperate for cash or horny.
Disappointing.
Lol you thought that the sex on porn films depicts reality. A hell of a lot of porn actresses are in poor mental states, get injuries from having to retake and sometimes have to work through tears to finish a film. There's a lot of exploitation in porn even one of the supposed male porn stars who was at the top of his game topped himself because of the pressure. I have no ideas about the official stats buts it's pretty inhumane; I really think budding "stars" should go through psychological assessments and test for naivety before starting. So many young people are not prepared for the realities and permanence of having a film out.
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Original post by Eveiebaby
Lol you thought that the sex on porn films depicts reality. A hell of a lot of porn actresses are in poor mental states, get injuries from having to retake and sometimes have to work through tears to finish a film. There's a lot of exploitation in porn even one of the supposed male porn stars who was at the top of his game topped himself because of the pressure. I have no ideas about the official stats buts it's pretty inhumane; I really think budding "stars" should go through psychological assessments and test for naivety before starting. So many young people are not prepared for the realities and permanence of having a film out.
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I was being ironic.But its good you wrote what you wrote.
(My gosh I hate to think what the females on this site think of me if they think the things I say are meant to be taken literally!
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