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Does She Like Me?

Another cliché 'Does she like me thread'.

There is this girl I like I work with. She moved in our department about 4 months and I never really looked at her in that way, I just thought she was a nice sweet girl. Me and another lad go to the local Sainsbury's for dinner and she tag along.

We all went out mad Friday and had a great night. Me her and a couple of others ended up staying out until about 4am.

It kinda just hit me after that night.

We had two weeks off for Christmas and she virtually liked everything I posted on Facebook. Even stuff she doesn't like. Like football, betting and guitars.

We came back after Christmas and she came straight upto me and started talking about our night out and that she'd read my blog. All thought I'm not sure where she found it.

She was sat behind and spent all week poking, pulling my hair, putting things down my back and tickling me. As as well as that flirty, micky taking banter.

I was invited to a wedding reception and she made a big deal about me taking her as a plus one. Although I didn't take her.

I gave her my number about 10 days ago and she's not texted me yet. I don't have her number.

We moved around and ended up seating opposite and the flirting continued. I was really ill last week and she was sending me emails saying get better with love hearts and we continued emailing.

A lad who works in another department is weirdly obsessed with her, but I know they've socialised together because they have a couple of mutual friends.

A few of us are going out weekend pay day that she organised.
Reply 1
Yes, I'd say she does.
Reply 2
Just ask her out before the other guy does. You can tell she fancies you.
No
I just don't want to make myself look a idiot at work.
Reply 5
Original post by TheCasual MK2
I just don't want to make myself look a idiot at work.


Ask her out for lunch.
A little update.

She asked me to go shopping with her after pay day and made a big deal about putting in her diary

She also spent half the afternoon blowing kisses at me :biggrin:
Reply 7
Original post by TheCasual MK2
A little update.

She asked me to go shopping with her after pay day and made a big deal about putting in her diary

She also spent half the afternoon blowing kisses at me :biggrin:


Shopping isn't really a good place for a 'first date' if that's how you interpret it. Not for spending time together anyway, it's too boring for the guy and you don't want to end up carrying her shopping!
Reply 8
Original post by UWS
Shopping isn't really a good place for a 'first date' if that's how you interpret it. Not for spending time together anyway, it's too boring for the guy and you don't want to end up carrying her shopping!


I hate shopping the only good thing is having lunch however i think they are both just friends at the minute so its okay.
If you gave her your number why don't you tell her to text you so you have hers and then start conversation.

When you go shopping, go for food too and then you can talk face to face.
Original post by UWS
Shopping isn't really a good place for a 'first date' if that's how you interpret it. Not for spending time together anyway, it's too boring for the guy and you don't want to end up carrying her shopping!


It started when I said I'd lost some weight and my work shirts where getting baggy. So she said we'll have to go shopping.
We where all out last night(Including the other lad who likes)

We got about 10 minutes on our own and I told her I thought she was gorgeous and intelligent(Cringe)

I sent a message saying hope she got home safely and I meant what I said and sent me some love hearts.
Original post by TheCasual MK2
A little update.

She asked me to go shopping with her after pay day and made a big deal about putting in her diary

She also spent half the afternoon blowing kisses at me :biggrin:


Friendzoned.

A girl would never invite you shopping if she was sexually interested in you.
I asked her about shopping on Wednesday and she was still up for it. I said yesterday I would message her to arrange a time. But she didn't reply to my messages.

I'm not sure how to approach it now.

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