Question for guys: sex or masturbation?

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Reply 20

Cold 187um

I enjoy rubbing my clit. But I'm asexual, I dislike sex, hugs and kisses.

Reply 21

walking in glass

Original post by mkap

idk ive never had sex

"Question for guys"

and you're a virgin.

So what exactly was the point in you replying to this thread?

Reply 22

Anonymous #2

Original post by walking in glass

sex is so much more varied and it is with someone whom you share a deep emotional bond with (usually) whom you can give pleasure too also. so that's a no-brainer.

I thought the OP only asked for guy's opinions...

Reply 23

kieran12321LFC

Sex is good but it's nothing like the real thing :wink:

Reply 24

mkap

Original post by walking in glass

"Question for guys"

and you're a virgin.

So what exactly was the point in you replying to this thread?

i realised after chill out -_-

Reply 25

alkaline.

Original post by Limpopo

That is pretty poor, having a GF, not having sex but being caught fapping. But you know, thats what happens in a lot of long term marriages. I know husbands who are not interested in sex with their wives any more but sit up late fapping using net porn whilst their wife is upstairs in bed ! Whats she doing? sleeping or fapping,, who knows. Its a pretty poor state of affairs . Divorce is inconvenient and costs money.

why do guys do this though?

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Reply 26

Anonymous #3

Original post by zill1

But I guess if you have good videos then masturbation can be good?

nothing compares to arousal in real life from non-virtual humans.

Original post by Dr Pesto

I get better orgasms out of masturbation most of the time, but I prefer intercourse as an experience.

I feel sorry for you.

Original post by mkap

idk ive never had sex

why the **** did you post then?

Reply 27

Lemon Haze

I voted sex, but it took me like 5 minutes to decide. I've had some pretty intense orgasms with both.

Reply 28

Lemon Haze

Original post by Cold 187um

I enjoy rubbing my clit. But I'm asexual, I dislike sex, hugs and kisses.

Plz stahp

Blowjobs!

Original post by DiddyDec

Blowjobs!

Yeah, them.
Masturbation is cool too if no sex available. Sometimes sex is a little disappointing but a guy can always rely on his right hand. Or left. Or both if he's lucky😎

Reply 31

It's****ingWOODY

Sex for fun, masturbation for satisfaction.

Prefer salads

Original post by Drez999

Yeah, them.
Masturbation is cool too if no sex available. Sometimes sex is a little disappointing but a guy can always rely on his right hand. Or left. Or both if he's lucky😎

Original post by WoodyMKC

Sex for fun, masturbation for satisfaction.

this is really shocking.

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Reply 34

TorpidPhil

Original post by alkaline.

this is really shocking.

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I imagine its a better of masturbation frankly being less effort and consistently the same reward. Sex is more fun because of that unpredictability and the fact that you can vary it up. but I feel like if you just want a quickie masturbation might be more suited?

Reply 35

It's****ingWOODY

Original post by alkaline.

this is really shocking.

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It's not that at all, it's just my attitude to sex. I see sex as a fun naughty activity, I'm not doing it for a mind blowing orgasm - while every man orgasms at the end of sex and it feels good, there's nothing like your hand (with which you can control the pressure, stroke length and speed and "head action") and some visual stimulus for an intense orgasm. If I'm feeling really horny and I have sex, it normally doesn't last very long and we bothend up disappointed, I much prefer to just blow off that steam on my own and it's always incredibly satisfying; with sex I just like to enjoy it, draw it out, get some variety in and ensure she's satisfied.

Reply 36

TreeFellOnMe

This is kind of a no brainer.

Reply 37

XMaramena

Tricky one actually.

I've never had a "relationship" as such, always one night stands, and had a few "special friends" for regulars.

Sex is great. I didn't enjoy it so much for a while, it turns out it was actually the condoms I was using. Switched over to non-latex and all of a sudden it was awesome.

But, I've had so much practical training and vocational experience with masturbation, I consider myself quite the professional. And it's pretty hard to beat.

Maybe if there's someone who I get a "connection" with, maybe sex will be better. But I do have a fair amount of sex, and it's not that great. Funny enough, I'm apparently really great in bed, and half the time I'm just winging it! So I guess I have a gift. Unfortunately, it only works wonders for her, and doesn't work wonders for me.

If I was to base it purely off my past encounters, and given the choice of sex or masturabation, and both would be exactly like they were before, then I would go masturbation.