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Girlfriend caught me watching porn

My girlfriend was at work and she said she wasnt home til four and i was feeling horny so I thought i watch some porn and masturbate. We have a good sex life but shes insecure about her body as she has gained some weight but i always tell her shes beautiful. Anyway she came in an hour early and caught me masturbating and watching porn! She stormed out and started bellowing (people are in the house) saying that i can carry on watching disgusting videos and if i have to or think about watching it then i clearly dont find her attractive! I think shes being a bit pathetic but she literally will not talk to me. What do i do now?! Shes bloody sulking.

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Original post by Anonymous
My girlfriend was at work and she said she wasnt home til four and i was feeling horny so I thought i watch some porn and masturbate. We have a good sex life but shes insecure about her body as she has gained some weight but i always tell her shes beautiful. Anyway she came in an hour early and caught me masturbating and watching porn! She stormed out and started bellowing (people are in the house) saying that i can carry on watching disgusting videos and if i have to or think about watching it then i clearly dont find her attractive! I think shes being a bit pathetic but she literally will not talk to me. What do i do now?! Shes bloody sulking.


I would laugh if I caught my boyfriend watching porn. :lol:
But if you love her, make her feel better now because although you think you've done nothing wrong, it's hit her insecurities and has to be calmed down. Explain how it doesn't affect how you see her, or how attractive you find her.
since you already told her you find her beautiful still and she doesn't believe you is kind of annoying
being angry about the porn? not pathetic since it varies from female to female
shouting about it so others can hear? yes, pathetic


also is there know way to masturbate without watching porn? I mean you have a girlfriend and she clearly doesn't like it, was it really necessary? could've wanked over something else?

Original post by Eternalflames
I would laugh if I caught my boyfriend watching porn. :lol:
But if you love her, make her feel better now because although you think you've done nothing wrong, it's hit her insecurities and has to be calmed down. Explain how it doesn't affect how you see her, or how attractive you find her.


out of interest why would you laugh?
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iKiss.
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Wtf? she's over reacting, my parents are married and I know they masturbate when they have arguments, or other things, it's normal!
I masturbate like everyday and my boyfriend knows that, and I think he does too probably. All i have to say is masturbating is the norm, everyone does it, no matter if they are in a relationship or not. :smile:
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I don't see why people have a problem with this. If a GF of mine watched porn, the only time it'd bother me is if it started turning into "Sorry babe, we can't have sex, I already masturbated earlier and I'm not in the mood anymore" :lol:
My girlfriend and I used to masturbate and watch porn together, it makes it all that much hotter. You should make her that suggestion.
Original post by alkaline.


out of interest why would you laugh?


Because imagine it. I come home early from work and see my boyfriend horny w**king to some porn, if we assume it's the type of porn where the storyline is **** and they're all faking, that's playing in the background and he's really at it. That's f**king hilarious to me. Just imagining it in my head, the scenario would make me laugh.

But I don't think pornography should exist at all. It's basically prostitution, and I hate that too.
Original post by Eternalflames
Because imagine it. I come home early from work and see my boyfriend horny w**king to some porn, if we assume it's the type of porn where the storyline is **** and they're all faking, that's playing in the background and he's really at it. That's f**king hilarious to me. Just imagining it in my head, the scenario would make me laugh.

But I don't think pornography should exist at all. It's basically prostitution, and I hate that too.


aha yeah I get you, it's funny that's he so horny/kinda desperate he has to watch some fake ass bs

the bit in bold loool yeah

yeah now I think about it, it is a form of virtual prostitution - if it's a paid pornstar that is

wouldn't you be offended a bit though, that he's ejaculating over another girls naked body?
Original post by alkaline.

wouldn't you be offended a bit though, that he's ejaculating over another girls naked body?


No, if I know he loves me and still finds me attractive and as long as I don't find him cheating or talking/flirting with other girls, he can compliment and look at naked/bikini models if he wants to. Not girls he knows in real life or online etc though, that is cheating for me, and I wouldn't handle it.
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Zimz
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Lol your girlfriend thinks porn is disgusting?! Lol.
Give it time. She'll get over it. I mean, you don't necessarily have a choice is she's not around 24/7.
Original post by iKiss.
Wtf?


Original post by iKiss.
my parents are married and I know they masturbate when they have arguments

Original post by iKiss.
Wtf?


wtf :afraid::ahhhhh:
Original post by e aí rapaz
wtf :afraid::ahhhhh:


Exactly
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iKiss.
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Original post by e aí rapaz
wtf :afraid::ahhhhh:


It's completely normal, accept it. :/
Original post by iKiss.
It's completely normal, accept it. :/


Knowing your parents' masturbation habits is definitely not normal.

I suggest you call childline.
:rofl:
She projecting her insecurities onto you which is unfair and in my opinion completely out of line.

What you should do depends on how you want the situation to resolve.
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iKiss.
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Original post by e aí rapaz
Knowing your parents' masturbation habits is definitely not normal.

I suggest you call childline.


Adults masturbating is completely normal; if parents have busy lives, working, no regular sex life. Call childline? Great! So, what are they going to do? Stop my parents? Convince me that what my parent' are doing is putting my life at risk?
Wow these comments are astounding especially the ones from women....A man falls in love with a woman and promises to give her his all but couldn't even manage to masturbate thinking of or using images of his so called
Who else was in the house? What a little insecure drama queen
I think the important thing is you can't apply logic or your reasoning to it since it doesn't match with hers on this. While many girls wouldn't consider it a problem, there are those that do and expecially if it's linked to body confidence issues, it's something you need to take seriously and respect. It's the way with lots of things, just because we don't understand it doesn't mean it's not important. I think the approach to take with this is let her tell you why she finds issue with it and try and calm her down from that perspective. It's not fair for her to ask you to stop doing it I don't think, so if you could come to some kind of compromise, so much the better

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